V.upset; should I include wife's name on Xmas cards to kids?

I feel so stupid. been just over five months since my wife died from aggressive cancer. I can talk about the lead up to when she had her final week.

But when it comes down to the details of her final few days I get images and thoughts of how much she had to go through.

Now because this is my first year without my wife for Christmas  and new year, I'm  feeling so stupid about getting upset writing  on Christmas cards to my son and daughter, my minds just gone blank.

I don't know if I still need to inclued the wife as mum on there cards. I don't want them thinking I have forgot her already, which I know will never happen till the day I die..

I just can't think of what to put to inclued their mum. Any advice would  help.

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  • So sorry for your loss. My girlfriend of 7 years at begging of lockdown received the all clear for thyroid cancer. But it looks like it's spread and she is having to go back as they have found something in her bloods. And it's in her lymph nodes now.  And I have come on here because I know I won't be able to cope with it. I can't loose her and I am just so sorry you have gone through what you have

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  • So sorry for your loss. My girlfriend of 7 years at begging of lockdown received the all clear for thyroid cancer. But it looks like it's spread and she is having to go back as they have found something in her bloods. And it's in her lymph nodes now.  And I have come on here because I know I won't be able to cope with it. I can't loose her and I am just so sorry you have gone through what you have

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