Mother-in-law hasn't phoned me since my mum died

My mum passed away on 11th May 2020 and her funeral was 1st June.  I haven't heard at all from my mother in law and I am disgusted with her behaviour.  Not even a call when my mum passed, not even a message.

I have had messages from her friends but nothing from her.  I mentioned it to my husband but he hasn't said a word, he just shrugged.  I am so hurt by this.  I haven't heard from my sister in law either.  

I have an OK relationship with my mother in law, I've been getting her shopping during lockdown etc and would occasionally call her to see how she was.  I'm honestly lost for words.

I've decided I'm done with them as they have hurt me so much.   I cannot get my head around it

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  • So sorry to read about your loss. I really do not want to make this about me but if it helps just to let you know the same thing happened to me too 4 months ago but not only that my husband thought it was a good time to walk out on me too. So please don't see this as anything to do with you the problem is very much theirs some people show their true colours when you need them the most.

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  • So sorry to read about your loss. I really do not want to make this about me but if it helps just to let you know the same thing happened to me too 4 months ago but not only that my husband thought it was a good time to walk out on me too. So please don't see this as anything to do with you the problem is very much theirs some people show their true colours when you need them the most.

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