I dated a guy with a stoma bag, it didn't bother me in the slightest and when he told me, it was a case of....oh....why's that? Are you better now? Yes? Good - and that was it. 
He was such great company, the bag didn't get any thought - even when I saw it, there were better things going on at that time to care about it, if you know what I'm saying...:love:

I can't honestly imagine any girlfriends of mine turning down a guy with a stoma bag.....it would be like turning someone away for having toenails or hair...it just wouldn't make any sense to do that.

So....Do you know why is it leaking randomly? Who would you speak to in your medical team about getting this sorted? 
 

I am sure there is a gent on here who I see around who also has a stoma bag...I hope he sees your message too xx

Sorry for the late response. I have tried a number of different bags and use elastic tape to secure the edges. At night my bag just seems to fill up quickly. The last 2 mornings I have had to change my bag as it was beginning to leak. It really gets me down. 
have a merry Xmas and thank you for your message

Sorry for the late response. I have tried a number of different bags and use elastic tape to secure the edges. At night my bag just seems to fill up quickly. The last 2 mornings I have had to change my bag as it was beginning to leak. It really gets me down. 
have a merry Xmas and thank you for your message