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I miss my mum so much .

Natisha
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I lost my mum only a few weeks ago. From bone and lung cancer , only diagnosed in November.

My mum was my world, I told my mum everything and she was always their for me,

I loved her so much and wanted to go with my mum.

Only two weeks on after mums cremation I just struggle every day. I don't want to be around anyone.

My partner is the only person and my two dogs I feel I want.

I caint seem to go back to work as I'm afraid of being around people.

I don't no how to cope or deal with the loss of my mum.

Does anyone have any advice please .

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    Hi Natisha 

    Firstly, I wanted to say I’m really sorry to hear about your Mum 

    My Mum died on the 27 April 2006 of lung cancer, so I can totally relate to how raw you feel right now.  There will be so many varied emotions you will experience, especially as it’s so recent.  If you can, try and talk about your mum and all the lovely memories you have, well as much as much as you feel able to. It may be a bit too soon but it really could help you open up your emotions rather than bottling them inside? 

    I talk to my husband about my mum all the time! 

    Perhaps talk to your mum too? No harm in it ? Sounds odd... but it can help (honest )   

    I know it’s an old cliche, but honestly, TIME is a healer and you WILL get through this... I promise xx 

     

     

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    Hi Natisha 

    Firstly, I wanted to say I’m really sorry to hear about your Mum 

    My Mum died on the 27 April 2006 of lung cancer, so I can totally relate to how raw you feel right now.  There will be so many varied emotions you will experience, especially as it’s so recent.  If you can, try and talk about your mum and all the lovely memories you have, well as much as much as you feel able to. It may be a bit too soon but it really could help you open up your emotions rather than bottling them inside? 

    I talk to my husband about my mum all the time! 

    Perhaps talk to your mum too? No harm in it ? Sounds odd... but it can help (honest )   

    I know it’s an old cliche, but honestly, TIME is a healer and you WILL get through this... I promise xx 

     

     

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