I have just been diagnosed with stage 4 secondary liver cancer. I felt I was in free fall whe I was told a few ago. I want to run but I can't.  We are a member of a club we do not want to be in and yet more that a third of people will get cancer. It's terrifying. I'm finding hard it to be the sick one too. I'm the fixer and doer in my family and I can't get used to not being that person any more. 

I wish you good luck with treatment. I also find Maggie's centre invaluable for counseling at the moment they have save me a few times ️

Hello 747, my heart goes out to you, I can feel the free fall you are feeling. Thank you for taking the time to write to me. I wish you the strength to bear this without such anguish and hope you find the support you need. x

Hi ladies,

How are you all? I'm struggling at the mo, feeling quite low. Not sure why as it's not like me usually. Had a lovely weekend last week, in Dublin with hubby but I did find I felt tired earlier than usual when I'm away. My head seems to be playing ping pong with me at the mo. On one hand I'm happy to not talk or acknowledge the cancer but then on the other hand it's constantly in my head. I met someone at work the other day, who has had breast cancer 3 times! Now I know I should take the positive from the fact she was well and recovered from the third episode but now my brain is constantly thinking about it coming back!! I also went with a friend, to her hospital appointment yesterday. She has a rare cancer in the back of her nose. Even though they didn't really tell her anything bad, that seems to have knocked me. I'm not sure if it's the tamoxifen that is affecting my mood or worrying.   I'm feeling very tired - which then I start worrying about - is it the cancer come back?! I'm sleeping so deeply at night so can't understand why I wake up feeling exhausted. Sorry for the moan - I feel you have more of an understanding than people around me. I don't want them worrying or fussing, so put on my brave, cheerful face. 
Sam, how you feeling about your op next week?

Christine - how are you and how's that knee of yours?

Well, best get back to my housework!!! 
 

xxx

Caroline

Sorry you're feeling down, totally understandable given what you've gone through and what you're going through (hormone tablets and its still early days since treatment, plus you seem to already be supporting others who will be going through similar challenges).

Don't feel that you shouldn't feel like this, some worry about blummin' cancer coming back is totally understandable.  Although my sensible head says that if this is getting too much for you that (as I am sure you know but never take for granted) there is support available either through hospital or MacMillan....

We never know how we'll feel after quite a milestone in our lives and I know a lot of people feel the same as you do so don't feel that you're alone and we're always here to read (listen!) and try & help so don't feel like you can't share/rant/whatever!

All rosy here.  Can't remember where we got to but my surgery may be 6th or it may be 13th...no one knows, and if they know no one is telling me...I mean I'm only the blummin patient after all...

Done my pre op, physio, post care with BCN etc but am missing the crucial surgery date confirmation.  I've bought my bra, pillows (v & heart), drain bag so think I'm all set re equipment.  

I've faced the challenge of dunelm (never use their online offering-you've been warned!), I seem to have just has daily meetings over last 2 wks, I've started investigating what reconstruction may cost me if I go down the private medical insurance route (how naive to assume that the cost of reconstruction of RHS, symmetry on LHS and nipple reconstruction & tattooing would be it) given that on the NHS to get a set of decent knockers could take over 2 yrs (!!) and I've got over the disappointment of my work realising, 5 months after starting my treatment, that I have income protection insurance (and the insurance ceases end March!)...better late than never eh?  So its been quite a roller coaster (what's new?) over the past few weeks but luckily I love a challenge.

And talking of challenges had fun with my sister (over from Taiwan) and father (down from the north), am glad to say my sister seems to have avoided the coronavirus when in Shanghai en route to UK!  That would have been interesting on top of my chest infection (think the 3rd set of antibiotics finished earlier this week finally got rid of it once & for all...and about time).

Anyhoo enough babbling about me, Hope you're well Christine ( & that very naughty eating machine Archie) and knee is now bionic.

Enjoy (!!) the housework - am leaving mine for now so others do it for me post surgery (daft not to take advantage of my imminent predicament).

Sam X

Hi ladies,

I'm sorry to hear you are down in the dumps, Caroline, I think I'm going through something very similar. It doesn't matter how hard I try not to think about cancer,it is there in front of me at every turn.  I am blaming the medication, though. Anything that can screw your hormones to the extent that these effing things do has got to be to blame for messing up your head, too.  I am also very fatigued, all the time, which is no biggie for me as I only have myself and the dog to look after but it must be really horrible for you with a job and family to think of.  So far the tiredness and some hot flushes, slight headaches and tummy troubles  have been the only physical side effects of the Letrozole, I think so, anyway. Fingers crossed it stays that way. Having said that, my pert little A cup non breast has lymphoedema in the scar tissue, so I now have another set of exercises to do every day, and I may never get a permanent  prosthesis to fit me.

 Whinge time, so you can skip the next paragraph if you wish. I'm still suffering with my knee, and this week the physiotherapist refused to treat it because it was so warm and swollen.  He called my doctor and got me an appointment for the same day ( something I couldn't have done) and I now have a referral for an X-ray on it, and an appointment to have a cortisone injection next week. The last injection I had, on the other knee was miraculous in killing the pain  I had been to the doc on Monday because of the pain and just got a prescription for codeine, which blows my mind, so I only take them at bedtime so I can sleep, but last night I was wakened by the pain and took two more at 3am.

Sam, will you get back dated insurance? I hope so!  It must be very frustrating not to know the date of your surgery, you are certainly well prepared. All I took was a huggy pillow and pj's. The hospital provided the drain bag. I'm glad the chest infection is gone, they could postpone your surgery yet again if it hadn't.  I had a residual cough and the anaesthetist made a special concession to allow mine after examining me very carefully.  Apparently they don't like us coughing when we are unconscious!

i found out what the DIEP (?) is, YEEEEUK!  I'd rather have a flat lumpy chest any day!

Archie has blotted his copy book again. Again with my hearing aid. I have now asked my doc for a new referral as they are not giving out the same model any more, and rather than have them rooting around in the different stores to find me an unused obsolete one, I would prefer the new model.  My daughter has bought me a set of little plastic lidded pots, to keep one in every room, so that whenever and wherever I take out the hearing aids I will have a sealed container to hand, to keep them in. She says it's no good trying to train Archie, so she's training me! I was so upset when I found what he'd done I couldn't speak to him for hours, that's definitely the Letrozole!

I was sad to hear, yesterday that my friend, Gladys, the lovely lady who had her mastectomy the same day as me, who resembled my mother at that age, has been called for more bone scans since her Dexa test, as they think her cancer may have spread to her bones.  She has had terrible trouble with her hip since her surgery, and also had to stop taking the Letrozole as it made her feel,so ill. I'm really sad for her. 

Take care, both of you. Sam, we'll be keeping everything crossed that you don't have any more messing about, and get your surgery over and done with ASAP.

Caroline, I hope you feel better, soon. And please feel free to whinge and rant as much as you need to, it does help, having someone who knows exactly what you are going through, you and Sam certainly help me. 

C xxx

Christine,

Sorry to hear you're finding post cancer treatment life a bit poo too!  Not being in this place yet I would imagine me to be swinging from the chandeliers as well as drinking copious amounts of alcohol but suspect things may be a little different when I get there. Anyway, like Caroline I hope this gets resolved one way or another.

I can't believe you've still got lymphedema still, it sounds that its relented somewhat but is still there, why are your support team not doing anything?  Having had my meeting re post surgery maintenance they were at odds to convince me that all fluid build up would be reabsorbed by the body...what they didn't state was how long it would take!  Do you just have to wait & keep your fingers crossed?  Can they not syringe it off (or whatever the term is)?  Interested to see of the exercises work and over what time.

And your knee is still pants too...you are not having a good time and am spending you internet hugs (timely as won't be doing that soon as will be too painful for me!!), bring on the pain meds eh.  Hopefully when that starts working then you can work on getting knee better?  As you can tell I'm not a knee specialist and only just about know where mine are.

How's the painting?  Seem to recall you'd be commissioned to do a picture for someone local...how's it going/gone?  I hope this is helping your state of mind although may be tricky given knee issue??

Yes insurance will be backdated, it could however take a couple of months to sort, and I am assuming I'll be covered, I mean how could they not cover a cancer sufferer? (I really don't trust insurance companies at all).  Yeah my hospital should provide shoulder bag & heart shaped pillow but my BCN is not the best at being organised, despite my nags so have ordered these on line rather than wait for her to maybe bring them to me on the day of my op (which she may not be there for depending on which date it is).

DIEP is lovely isn't it?  A 6-8 hr op, lengthy recovery and all those body bits used...am resigned to it now as want 2 boobs but can understand why only 17% of those having mastectomy choose to have delayed reconstruction...the additional op, the waiting times...there's a lot of compelling reasons why.  On the plus side I'd rather have the tummy used (and resulting tummy tuck - will miss my rolls as have been close to them for sooo many years) than things, bum, back etc.  If I wasn't so well endowed stomach-wise it would be a very different kettle of fish.

Are you sure your ear wax doesn't taste like roast beef as that dog obviously loves them, or maybe he just doesn't want you to hear, I suspect he'd be pretty rubbish at being an effective hearing dog given his passion in life is eating (things he shouldn't).  How sheepish was he when you sent him to Coventry?Love that your daughter has realised Archie is past it but you still have potential on the training front.

Glad we're still all in this together!  Have good weekends, mine will be dull and trying hard not to clean the house (not difficult!) so that my nurses/skivvies do all the hard work when here looking after me....cruel but I'm worth it!

Sam X

Hi ladies,

Thank you for making me smile and feel that I'm not going mad!! Like you, Christine, I do suspect the tamoxifen is playing a big part in my low mood and tiredness. Just hoping that once our bodies get used to them, things start to plateau off. 
Sam, the lady I met the other day had a reconstruction using her belly. I had the tissue from my back used. Apparently I didn't have enough fat on my belly!!! (Not sure she looked in the right place). But we are here to support you through the next stage. Milk the help!!

Christine, the hearing aid story did make me laugh!! And agree with Sam - earwax must taste amazing to dogs!! Sorry to hear that the knee is still no better but hopefully the injection will help. Also sad to hear about your friend. No wonder we worry about every ache and pain. I find myself googling my worries all the time, looking for the bad stuff so need to knock that on the head! 
Should have the joy of house jobs again today - washing, ironing etc. Hubby off out to watch rugby and all the boys have their plans, so just me and the dog left.

Enjoy your weekend ladies xx

Hello again, so soon, too.

Sam, the lymphoedema is not the same as a seroma, which is fluid filling up the empty space between the chest wall and skin, where your breast tissue used to be.  Apparently this does eventually re-absorb and can be drained off if not absorbing. The lymphoedema is fluid that is trapped inside the tissues like a sponge, which can't escape so can't be absorbed or drained off.  Mine is trapped in the scar tissue from the mastectomy.  I have seen a specialist lymphoedema nurse, who has given me special exercises to do that should help. I have to roll a wallpaper seam roller along the scar for a few minutes to soften it, then do stroking exercises to push the fluid to the other side, to drain into the lymph vessels there.  So far I feel it's a bit of a waste of time but I'm very obedient and will do them religiously!  My next appointment isn't until April.  However, I still have the seroma, too, which sometimes feels bigger than ever.

I am painting!  The portrait is coming along.  I have done an under painting, with no detail, in acrylic paints and then I will go over everything in oils and finally give them both facial features. At the moment I can see the likenesses, just based on shadow and highlights but it could all go horribly wrong when I start painting in the features.  Oils take a long time to dry so I am having to wait between layers or I end up with a muddy mess. I am pacing myself, too, so I don't get too tired.

Caroline, I am in awe of you not having enough fat on your belly!  I have a surfeit!  I have actually lost a couple of kilos, not just the missing boob, an additional couple.  I think it is because I have been off my food a bit. I can't think what I want to eat and then when I do cook, I can only eat half. I will be a long time before weight loss becomes a problem for me, though!

I have my appointment for the DEXA bone test, the week after next. I got a letter telling me my Vitamin D was low, so I have to see my GP about getting supplements. It can wait until I go for my cortisone injection on Thursday. I attended the gym session at the hospital last Monday, and am going again next week.  I can have six sessions, by which time I hope to remember what I'm supposed to do. At the moment I can't even remember what to do for the warm up.

Have fun, just you and the dog, Caroline, Sam make sure you don't do any housework!!

Christine xxx

Caroline
Hope the housework went well...lucky you!  Think I'll just capitulate to changing the bed pre my "I'm so pathetic I can't do anything" phase...

Christine 
Seroma eh?  There is so much to learn re this pesky disease isn't there and am sure I've been told but it obviously didn't register.  Anyway hope the regular massaging helps the L.
Your story of drying oils reminds me when my sister (who is arty, quite the opposite of me - in so many ways) did me some pictures before she went to Taiwan 15 yrs ago, she used that much oil paint they took about a year to dry - she's such an idiot!
This is also the woman who, when she's over here hires a car and when went to pick up car this time was told her license expired 6 yrs ago!  I ask you, and funnily enough she's hired cars in that period.  How can anyone be that badly organised?  I definitely got all the logical & planning genes.  So she's having to resort to the mega bus (not sure how its "mega" myself) whilst travelling up north and down to Southampton....might give her an incentive to be more like her sister!
What necessitated the DEXA bone test?  Given all the stuff in me am sure my bones are worsening (was osteopenic before cancer) - based on nothing of course!  But am keen to have some test to see whether that is indeed the case so can do something about it.  

Can't say I'm that chuffed about not being able to ride bike or go to gym for 6 weeks post op but don't want any (more) bits falling off or damage the sticky plasters that will be holding what's left together.  Walking it is I guess.  As long as am ready for Paris in 2024 then all will be fine...not sure which sport I'll be excelling at yet...decisions, decisions eh?

Oh and finally found out that op is (lucky) 13th!

Sam X

Hi Sam,

Dday approaching fast,eh.?  You'll be fine, if an old mare like me can bounce back, a fit young filly like you should be up and running, biking, etc in no time.  I started normal activities after three weeks, but your surgery may be more invasive than just lopping off a boob!

The DEXA scan was automatically ordered when I agreed to take the Letrozole, and the reason is that the medication can cause osteoporosis and they need a baseline scan to keep an eye on things. I don't think Tamoxifen has the same unwanted effects as it works in a different way although to the same end. I have refused to take the bisphosphonates to protect the bones because they only offer 1% extra chance of longevity and can cause serious side effects and I can't see the value. If you already have bone strength problems, however, you might be encouraged to take them.  I was surprised, yesterday as I returned from lunch out with my friend, to find a note from the pharmacy saying they had tried to deliver something to me and to call to rearrange  I was quite confused as I hadn't requested anything, so I phoned and was told it was my Vitamin D tablets!!! The health centre must have automatically ordered them when they got the blood test results- very efficient!!!

I can't wait for tomorrow and getting my knee injected. I take two codeine tablets at bedtime which help me to sleep, but I always wake up in pain when the heating comes on. Stupidly, though, rather than just getting up and taking more pills, I lie there, in pain, waiting for my alarm to go off. .???

I go for new hearing aids tomorrow, too.  I was delighted to get a phone call offering me an appointment only a week from my chat with the doc. I have been watching TV with subtitles, which is ok for pre-recorded programmes but live discussions bring some very peculiar sub-titles.  My little boxes are already in place in the spots where I have been known to leave my hearing aids for Archie to chew.

Enjoy your extra week pre-surgery, get your cycling and gym work done. 
 

Christine xxx
 

Thanks Christine,
Will ask my BCN re the DEXA scan and heads up re biphosphates noted as they have been mentioned.  My BCN nurse also mentioned oral chemo...great!  But often she's quite off the mark so am not getting too excited at this stage.

I can't imagine my surgery will be any different, its a mastectomy RHS and wire excision LHS (just found out they put the wires in the day before so will achieve my life goal of joining the Borg).  I will be taking it easy but will be looking to do a little more than just blummin' walk after 3/4 weeks...I'll go crazy otherwise.

So got my v pillow, my front fastening bra, a softie, a knitted knocker (great charity), shoulder bag for drain and small heart pillow so we're all good to go!

My main challenge this week has been trying to get sister back to Taiwan without going via China, as most flights do.  She was booked on a flight which meant she'd have to travel from one Chinese airport to another...best avoided I think, plus if she goes near China she has to be in self imposed quarantine for 14 days.  We tried to get her some masks (that her employers are insisting all workers wear) and the pharmacies over here are already cashing in, the cheapest work out at £1.50 each, in Taiwan they are now government controlled and charge a max of 3p!  Anyway the boyfriend managed to get some on (although I hate using it) Amazon so she'll be fine, although he did point out that she may as well just get some string and strap a tenner to her face...
So yesterday we went, whilst in London, to the airline she's flying back with (as they're not answering mails or phone calls) to cancel return leg via china to be told they've changed her flight anyway, still via different Chinese airports but now she can cancel as they've changed flight which makes life easier.

So fairly dull rest of week in run up to operation, am hoping at some point that they'll let me know the time and also when to be in day before for radiation injection though no doubt that will also be very late in the day too.

Was thinking of your dicky knees yesterday when on bike and could definitely feel mine...need to up my physio exercises (that I am rubbish at remembering to do except when at gym).  However given will be needing to to arm exercises for a while could add them on I guess...every cloud and all that!  Hope the knee injection helped.

I also think it's important not to disrupt the fabric of the universe by not getting up before the alarm...not had any toilet related accidents yet but its been close...

And I want to hear that the new hearing aids have no Archie dribble on them.

How are the oil features progressing?  Can't recall if I told you but in the sprinting of trying to be "creative" (well as creative as I can be - its got to have a practical edge) I have some cushions that need creating, this will be a job post surgery...lets see how many failed attempts it takes eh?  Zip or no zip is the question given only machine sewed 30 years ago and that was to put patches on jeans (that I was exceptionally good at!).

Caroline & Christine

How are you both doing re low moods? How long will you give the Tamoxifen if things are not/don't improve - as presumably there's other hormone tablets available?

Got, as well as insertion of wire & injection of radiation on Weds my 2nd zolodex which other than mad sweats doesn't appear (thankfully) to be giving me any problems...the Letrozole will need to be taken at some point soon I guess,  when were you supposed to start taking your hormone tablets?

Joined a facebook DIEP group but think I need to stop reading all the posts (some horror stories!) and just read one how you shouldn't/can't do any abdominal exercises for 18 months post DIEP surgery! Seems a long time and I like my pathetic attempts at building a none-pack!  Some good photos though of what's to come on the other side.

Need to make an effort to clean house before op but that said, think I'll have a sofa day today - its a little blowy outside....watch out Archie doesn't take off (what type of dog is yours Caroline?).

Sam X

Hi,

You are impressively organised, although you have been waiting for this for a long time. I certainly had it easy just going straight for the surgery.  They wanted me to start the Letrozole two weeks after my second op, but I managed to avoid it for another six weeks or so.  Now I think I might be getting away easily with that, too, as my side effect symptoms are minor compared to the pain I had in my knee.   Pain, which I am delighted to say, is considerably diminished since Thursday. My wonderful doctor injected both knees and I woke up on Friday morning pain free!!! It still hurts a bit now and then but nothing like it was before. I think my knees are going to send him a valentine card!  In the afternoon I had to go for the new hearing aids and do some shopping so I didn't rest the knees as much as I was supposed to, but I am 90% better than I was so I'm not complaining.  I am so much better that yesterday Archie and I went for a long walk up the lane at the end of our cul de sac, leading to two fisheries, several fields of sheep and ending up at the deer farm.The horses have been taken indoors for the winter and there were only six deer outside, the rest were probably in their covered shelter, sensible creatures.

My new hearing aids are amazing, I can now hear myself saying words beginning with 's' whereas before I had lost all such high frequency sounds.  I don't need subtitles on the telly and the volume is down to normal!  The aids are being put away, religiously, at night and stashed on top of the wardrobe, way out of Archie's reach. I hope I remember to do that every time I remove them.

I had to go to a different hospital the day before the surgery to get my radioactive injection.  It was nothing, I didn't even go blue!  I had a letter telling me to phone the ward at 6pm the night before surgery to find out when I needed to go in. I was quite surprised the first time when they said come in at 8o'clock, we were in the pub!  By the time I went for the second op it was old hat. 

It was lucky that your sister came over when she did, she or she could be languishing in quarantine in China already. What a palaver getting her flight cancelled.  What are her plans now then?

My painting still has very vague features, in fact the man's have been wiped out as I realised I hadn't made his face quite long enough. He's wearing a smart jacket now, a decent shirt and a half done tie. It has a pattern on it that will need a small brush and steady hand to get even a rough likeness, so I will wait until everything else is finished and dry before doing that. The lady still has orange hair and vaguely recognisable features, not that they are hers, necessarily. Her jacket now looks ok but her dress has a pattern that I'm going to struggle with.  I might use artistic license and give her a different dress altogether. I'm only going to start her face and hair after her husband is done because he is easier to get a decent likeness as he has strong features, whereas she is quite pretty, not what an artist wants to paint, at all! I have to wait another day or two to see if today's efforts are dry.

Today I thought I was going to get away without walking Archie as every time I opened the door and offered him out he gave me a look and went back in. However, there was a window in the cloud for about half an hour and we went for a short walk. There was a lot of debris on the main road from old trees that border one side but the rain held off until we got blown back indoors. He looks funny in the wind with all his hair blowing in all directions.

Enjoy the next couple of days, and I hope all your preparation makes things easier for you come d-day.  If we don't hear from you before, all the best for your surgery and hope to hear from you after the event all bright eyed and bushy tailed.

Christine xxx

Hi,

You are impressively organised, although you have been waiting for this for a long time. I certainly had it easy just going straight for the surgery.  They wanted me to start the Letrozole two weeks after my second op, but I managed to avoid it for another six weeks or so.  Now I think I might be getting away easily with that, too, as my side effect symptoms are minor compared to the pain I had in my knee.   Pain, which I am delighted to say, is considerably diminished since Thursday. My wonderful doctor injected both knees and I woke up on Friday morning pain free!!! It still hurts a bit now and then but nothing like it was before. I think my knees are going to send him a valentine card!  In the afternoon I had to go for the new hearing aids and do some shopping so I didn't rest the knees as much as I was supposed to, but I am 90% better than I was so I'm not complaining.  I am so much better that yesterday Archie and I went for a long walk up the lane at the end of our cul de sac, leading to two fisheries, several fields of sheep and ending up at the deer farm.The horses have been taken indoors for the winter and there were only six deer outside, the rest were probably in their covered shelter, sensible creatures.

My new hearing aids are amazing, I can now hear myself saying words beginning with 's' whereas before I had lost all such high frequency sounds.  I don't need subtitles on the telly and the volume is down to normal!  The aids are being put away, religiously, at night and stashed on top of the wardrobe, way out of Archie's reach. I hope I remember to do that every time I remove them.

I had to go to a different hospital the day before the surgery to get my radioactive injection.  It was nothing, I didn't even go blue!  I had a letter telling me to phone the ward at 6pm the night before surgery to find out when I needed to go in. I was quite surprised the first time when they said come in at 8o'clock, we were in the pub!  By the time I went for the second op it was old hat. 

It was lucky that your sister came over when she did, she or she could be languishing in quarantine in China already. What a palaver getting her flight cancelled.  What are her plans now then?

My painting still has very vague features, in fact the man's have been wiped out as I realised I hadn't made his face quite long enough. He's wearing a smart jacket now, a decent shirt and a half done tie. It has a pattern on it that will need a small brush and steady hand to get even a rough likeness, so I will wait until everything else is finished and dry before doing that. The lady still has orange hair and vaguely recognisable features, not that they are hers, necessarily. Her jacket now looks ok but her dress has a pattern that I'm going to struggle with.  I might use artistic license and give her a different dress altogether. I'm only going to start her face and hair after her husband is done because he is easier to get a decent likeness as he has strong features, whereas she is quite pretty, not what an artist wants to paint, at all! I have to wait another day or two to see if today's efforts are dry.

Today I thought I was going to get away without walking Archie as every time I opened the door and offered him out he gave me a look and went back in. However, there was a window in the cloud for about half an hour and we went for a short walk. There was a lot of debris on the main road from old trees that border one side but the rain held off until we got blown back indoors. He looks funny in the wind with all his hair blowing in all directions.

Enjoy the next couple of days, and I hope all your preparation makes things easier for you come d-day.  If we don't hear from you before, all the best for your surgery and hope to hear from you after the event all bright eyed and bushy tailed.

Christine xxx

Hi Sam,

Just wanted to send my love in preparation of tomorrow's surgery! Have everything crossed it all goes according to plan!! Hope the wire thingie went ok today!! Let us know how it all goes and how you are.

caroline xx

Hi Sam, 

Just wanted to send my best wishes for tomorrow, You might already be in hospital as I write this, so get your eye blinds on and earplugs in or you won't get any sleep, as you know. 

Look forward to hearing that everything has gone ok and you are facing the world in your own inimitable way!

Christine xxx

C&C

Cheers ladies, thanks for the wishes, really nice.  Especially on the back of a full day at the hospital, a near fainting incident (apparently it happens quite often) and one boob with wire in it (and outside of it too...its a bit painful when I use LHS) and the other with radiation in it (injection made me swear...so unlike me...yeah right).

So am well pooped after a full on day, on the plus side should hopefully sleep well.  In at 11 for surgery in the afternoon (no idea what time...what's new?).

The next time I write I will be down a DD!  And good blummin riddance. Bring on the morphine (I can but hope).

Sam X

Best of luck.  Have been following you but haven't contributed to chat.  I was lucky, lump found last July. Op to remove just the lump in August.  All clear and limph nodes clear too.  4 weeks of radiotherapy November/December.  Now on Letrozole with no ill effects.  See Consultant next Monday to be hopefully signed off all clear.  Stay positive.

Just a quick note to let you know it all went swimmingly, am now 614 grams lighter!

Pain negligible, drain very annoying as is cold that I have and glad to say constipation appears to be easing (green poo was an interesting development!).

Will write more soon when Mother clears off later on today.

Sam X

Yay!!! Glad to hear it went well. Rest now and we'll catch up soon!

Christine

Oh brilliant to hear from you!!! And that all is going well. I'm sure the drain will be gone soon enough!

Caroline x

Hope your recovery goes well.  I have just go back from hospital after check up.  I am all clear and have been discharged.  Just yearly mammograms and letrozole.

Oh that's brilliant news! You must be feeling very relieved! Got my first check up in April.

Caroline x

Good news Pandy - well done to you & your body!  Will be joining you on the big L very soon.

So its my first day home alone, I wonder what damage I can do eh?  Still on regular paracetamol here which seems to be doing the trick.  Under arm does feel a little painful today (like there's a lump of lego stabbing me in the side) but am off for drain removal at 4pm so they can check for any lego pieces I guess.  I will be SOOO glad to be rid of this drain, given the level of yuck has not increased hardly at all since leaving hospital I'm not sure I have as much fluid circulating around my body compared to the average...I think its my bodies way of saying it needs the reintroduction of alcohol (still not fancying it, along with pizza...end of Feb maybe?).

The really annoying thing about my Mother not being here anymore is that I will have to do my own washing up (boo!), cooking I don't mind too much but washing up is quite a chore...may just leave it till the boyfriend comes round to check that I've not managed to strangle myself on my drain tube or fall asleep with a mouthful of strepsils (he really doesn't trust me at all!).

Am still doing well on the exercises, find the last one with arms out to side & behind head the most challenging one and am sure am providing a regular source of great amusement to those smoking outside the pub opposite when doing said exercises (I should be charging you know).

You'll all be glad to know that the green poo has gone and the dulcoease has done its trick, always nice for me & my bowels to be harmonised once again!

Am also doing well on the daily walks, which today will be to the train station & hospital & back...I like a boobless adventure, am at the ready to bat anybody who gets too close to the missing boob site and already find myself wandering along with my right arm at an angle ready to slap those who may get too close! Amazing the things you need to think about with new body challenges...am having to rethink the whole handbag set-up...

I do hope you are all loving the onset of spring, am keeping a close eye on my lovely croci which didn't get too battered by Dennis (as I hope you all didn't), daffs about to pop and can't even recall what I did re tulips so that will be a nice surprise.

And talking of nature sprouting my head hair is growing lots (its about 1/2 cm now), eyebrows are nearly at full capacity and chin hairs are certainly making up for lost time...interesting that all hairs are much whiter than they used to be.

Am still not sure I trust my waterproof dressings to attempt a full shower yet, been having prison washed and lower body showers to far but may go further (get me!), once blummin drain is out.  It will be interesting to see how the drain is affixed as its got caught on doors and things and despite good yanks has managed to stay attached, although I don't want another fainting incident!

Christine - how the knee & are the new hearing aids still free of Archie DNA?

Caroline - hope you're still feeling more chipper.

Sam X