I was diagnosed with stage 2, grade 3 triple negative breast cancer in December 2024. Age 51. My house was up for sale and I was supposed to be moving in with my bf over 150 miles away on the Isle of Wight . We have been together for 4 years . He came with me for my oncologist appointment on 2nd Jan 2025 and I haven’t seen him since . I have put my house sale on hold now. He has a structural engineering business and uses it as an excuse not to see me. He now says he’s too busy with work , but every weekend he’s arranging to go out with his friends for curry nights, bowling, birthdays and stay at their homes or a hotel . He had time for me before. He would find time for a holiday abroad whenever he wanted, before my diagnosis , so it’s looking like he just doesn’t care. My cancer diagnosis is already hard to deal with , but being dumped in slow motion is the hardest most heartbreaking thing and I’m wondering why am I even bothering with chemo? I’ve lost the will to live.
