Losing my mum

Hi I just wanted to post as my mum passed away this morning after being in hospital for the past 18 days. She went in after getting more and more tired and pain and lumps appearing in her neck. They operated to remove part of it from her throat but we got a call last night that it had spread. We finally got to see her last night and knew that she wouldn't make it through the night. It has come out of nowhere really she has had skin cancer and breast cancer before but she was at mine at Christmas all fine and now 29 days later she has passed away. It is the most devestating news I've ever had she was only 63. Now my dad is on his own and I just want to be there for him which is hard as I live with my partner and 2 children who are 2 and 4 years old. I just wanted to post and get it off my chest really as it's the worst situation I've been in and dealt with. Matt

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  • I am so sorry for you .. it too lost my mum on the 29th jan out of the blue.. I ran home from work and couldn't wait to see her and found her. She was a mum and dad to me and my brother and we can't stop crying feeling like 5 and 6 year olds. She had been through cancer twice and lots of operations and seemed ok .. just just never know the minute .. I am what wondering how I will ever feel happy again .. i loved her company .. I feel so sorry for everyone   On here who has a going through loss of mum because this is devastating xx  

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  • I am so sorry for you .. it too lost my mum on the 29th jan out of the blue.. I ran home from work and couldn't wait to see her and found her. She was a mum and dad to me and my brother and we can't stop crying feeling like 5 and 6 year olds. She had been through cancer twice and lots of operations and seemed ok .. just just never know the minute .. I am what wondering how I will ever feel happy again .. i loved her company .. I feel so sorry for everyone   On here who has a going through loss of mum because this is devastating xx  

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