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Sadness - lost mum to secondary breast cancer 7 months ago

Boo20
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I lost my mum to secondary breast cancer this year.

It's been nearly 7 months. 

My world is completely destroyed. I can't actually cope! I cry all the time, my mood swings are awful. 

I'm hiding away because I don't want people to see me broken.

I miss her so much. My mum is everywhere I go, she's in everything I do and always on my mind.

I don't know what to do or how to feel anything other than emptiness.

It's actually physically painful.....I can't go on like this

 

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    Hi Boo20

     

    I lost my Mum to secondary cancer just this Tuesday.

    I read your words and I feel the same.

    I don't know what to do without her here and I wonder if I did everything right for her as I recently became her live in carer for her to stay at home. If I could have done better for her. I like awake each night rethinking and reliving the last few weeks.

     

    But she would want you to go on, just like I know my Mum would, even if we don't  feel like it right now X

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    I am truly so sorry for your loss x

    It's a pain no words can heal.

    Just devastating xx

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