Wow your post rings so true for me and my story. I lost my dad this year in Feb22 after only 3 months of my dad being poorly. We found out he had bladder cancer in Dec, January we were told it was terminal...6months to 18months with treatment and he died in Feb22. I still can't believe that I'm writing words like this as it feels unreal and im Itotally living a nightmare I was never ever prepared for. It happened so quick, we just reacted to everything. Biggest thing that upsets me is it was contained and still nothing could be done. He was so strong like always and just never really talked about how he was feeling.  I do wish he had but that was my dad...never wanted to upset his family. I just miss him so much he was my hero, my rock, my person. Does this pain and emptiness in your heart ever go.  Hope everyone whos lost someone are doing OK. 

It's awful when it's so quick isn't it , struggled to get a diagnosis for my Dad he was in and rapidly out of hospital (covid times) without being sorted , diagnosed and passed within 3 months .  The first few months are horrific, your on as they say a journey, it doesn't pain you as badly with time it just becomes different.  It's very draining isn't it and I think it's a process you got to go through. Talking about it is my regret too at the time but it was a rollercoaster at the time trying to keep him safe at home. It will get easier xx 

It's awful when it's so quick isn't it , struggled to get a diagnosis for my Dad he was in and rapidly out of hospital (covid times) without being sorted , diagnosed and passed within 3 months .  The first few months are horrific, your on as they say a journey, it doesn't pain you as badly with time it just becomes different.  It's very draining isn't it and I think it's a process you got to go through. Talking about it is my regret too at the time but it was a rollercoaster at the time trying to keep him safe at home. It will get easier xx