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Coping with loss I miss my mum so much .

I miss my mum so much .

Offline Natisha over 8 years ago

I lost my mum only a few weeks ago. From bone and lung cancer , only diagnosed in November.

My mum was my world, I told my mum everything and she was always their for me,

I loved her so much and wanted to go with my mum.

Only two weeks on after mums cremation I just struggle every day. I don't want to be around anyone.

My partner is the only person and my two dogs I feel I want.

I caint seem to go back to work as I'm afraid of being around people.

I don't no how to cope or deal with the loss of my mum.

Does anyone have any advice please .

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Offline Telle1990 over 7 years ago

Hi Natisha, i lost my mum too the same within 3 weeks of diagnosis, i’m 2 years down the line now and i still have days where i struggle and burst in to tears and take it kut on the wrong people. It feels liks a very lonely world when a daughter looses a mum.
Councilling helped me so much i went for 6 month and spoke about anything and everything. I managed to get through my last year of university, get my first job as a qualified nurse and move out... i then suffered abreak down this year which i fell into a deeper hole of depression and actually let my self take everything in.. all i can say is awful as this time was it needed to happen to enable me to move forward again.. my gp and councillor have both said this will most likely happen over and over again through out our life however the good times out weigh the bad once reality settles in.. although this tends to take time and is different for everyone.
i am always free to lend an ear if you feel you need to talk or if it will help you.

i send you all the love in the world huni and hope you can manahe to stay as strong as possible whilst feeling so low.

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Offline Telle1990 over 7 years ago

Hi Natisha, i lost my mum too the same within 3 weeks of diagnosis, i’m 2 years down the line now and i still have days where i struggle and burst in to tears and take it kut on the wrong people. It feels liks a very lonely world when a daughter looses a mum.
Councilling helped me so much i went for 6 month and spoke about anything and everything. I managed to get through my last year of university, get my first job as a qualified nurse and move out... i then suffered abreak down this year which i fell into a deeper hole of depression and actually let my self take everything in.. all i can say is awful as this time was it needed to happen to enable me to move forward again.. my gp and councillor have both said this will most likely happen over and over again through out our life however the good times out weigh the bad once reality settles in.. although this tends to take time and is different for everyone.
i am always free to lend an ear if you feel you need to talk or if it will help you.

i send you all the love in the world huni and hope you can manahe to stay as strong as possible whilst feeling so low.

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