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I have lost my young husband

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My husband passed away 22 days ago. He was just 52. I am 46. We have two children aged 13 & 10. I am completely devastated and cannot stop thinking about him. He was only diagnosed in May and we didn't get chance to do anything or plan anything. Nobody told us it would be so quick. He was such a fit and healthy man I can't understand it. He was chatting away on bank holiday Monday and then they told me on the Tuesday he wouldn't wake up. He died on the Thursday and we never really spoke again. I was with him when he died, I was holding his hand, it was horrible. I am so incredibly sad. 

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    Hi I to have lost my husband.he passed away 10 weeks ago on Tuesday. From finding out to him passing was only 6 weeks no symptoms he had oesophageal cancer and was in his liver and lungs.went to Weston park to find it was stage 4 cancer said they would do chemo.we had to go into palative care cus he was having bowel problems they did a scan to find his liver was fully tumor.then to be told there nothing else that can be done.they gave him weeks but deteriorated very quickly.he was only 48 we been married 28 years it's so devastating to watch a loved one go through this terrible disease.my thoughts are with you

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    Hi I to have lost my husband.he passed away 10 weeks ago on Tuesday. From finding out to him passing was only 6 weeks no symptoms he had oesophageal cancer and was in his liver and lungs.went to Weston park to find it was stage 4 cancer said they would do chemo.we had to go into palative care cus he was having bowel problems they did a scan to find his liver was fully tumor.then to be told there nothing else that can be done.they gave him weeks but deteriorated very quickly.he was only 48 we been married 28 years it's so devastating to watch a loved one go through this terrible disease.my thoughts are with you

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