I have lost my young husband

My husband passed away 22 days ago. He was just 52. I am 46. We have two children aged 13 & 10. I am completely devastated and cannot stop thinking about him. He was only diagnosed in May and we didn't get chance to do anything or plan anything. Nobody told us it would be so quick. He was such a fit and healthy man I can't understand it. He was chatting away on bank holiday Monday and then they told me on the Tuesday he wouldn't wake up. He died on the Thursday and we never really spoke again. I was with him when he died, I was holding his hand, it was horrible. I am so incredibly sad. 

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  • Hi Clairet.

    I'm so very sorry for your loss.

    I lost my Mum a few weeks ago, she was fit and healthy.. then colapsed in agony, went to hospital, then 3 weeks to the day she was gone.

    So I understand your feeling of confusion and regret at the speed it all happened.

    Just take each day as it comes sweet, it's hard, I know it is, but that's all you can do. 

     

    Try to eat, and make sure you can get some rest.

    Take care ok. xx

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 2 weeks ago and it's so hard to carry on without them isn't it, I think I am just sleep walking through each day nothing seems real. Life is still the same but everything is different. I am just trying to get through each day and hoping the next one will be better. 

    Sending you my love. X

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 2 weeks ago and it's so hard to carry on without them isn't it, I think I am just sleep walking through each day nothing seems real. Life is still the same but everything is different. I am just trying to get through each day and hoping the next one will be better. 

    Sending you my love. X

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