Is my partner lying about possible cancer?

Hello, I'll try and keep this short. 

I have identified a lot of red flags in the below story, but it would be great to have someone else's opinion on this.

I told my husband I wanted to leave him yesterday, lots of arguing followed and then he told me he had been to A&E that day and has been told he might have cancer. To be fair to him, he has had some symptoms of anal cancer but has been refusing to go to his gp. Now all of a sudden he has taken himself off to the emergency department and within 2 hours has given a stool sample, had a biopsy, blood tests and had a camera in his anus to look at his issue. This just seems like a lot to me in a very short space of time. He said they would email him the results in 2 weeks.

I asked why he didn't take anyone with him, why he didn't call while he was there, why it took 6 hours to tel me etc.

Can someone please clarify if any of the above sounds believable?

Thanks 

Parents Reply
  • Also if a biopsy was taken they would have given some paperwork to confirm whats been done. He wouldn’t have been told that and left the hospital with nothing. You can call Macmillan and speak to a nurse for their opinion, they are great. When my partner had a camera it was planned, biopsy was only taken due to finding something. We left with lots of info. Results took 5 days x

Children