Post Menopausal Bleeding

Hi

Last night (Friday) I had some light brown discharge.  There is also slightly brighter brown/red when I insert my finger into my vagina (apologies if TMI!) but no further discharge as yet.  I’m 55 years old and it’s been over 3 years since my last period.  I’m terrified it’s cancer.  I spoke to the 111 service and she recommended I get a BV test kit, which indicated trichomoniasis which as I’ve not been sexually active suggests it’s not the most accurate result.  I will phone my GP on Monday but I’m already seeing a psychologist for health anxiety so this is my nightmare come true.

I live on my own, I don’t have anyone I can talk to (friends were never really my thing!) and my family have passed away over the last few years so I’m very isolated.  I just thought it might be helpful to reach out via this forum for connection.

Thank you for reading this.

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  • I am fine Maebelle . I have a GP’s appointment which had already been scheduled for  Monday . So if I don’t get my letter through by then,  I can ask my GP to chase up the hospital appointment then . 
    what about you Maebelle , any updates for you ? 

  • How are you getting on Maebelle , any updates for you ? 

  • Good morning Cat-Cat

    I’m so pleased your friend gave you that gentle push to chase up your appointment as by the sounds of it you would have been waiting indefinitely.  Considering the name of the ward you’d think they’d be a tad more proactive and on the ball.  So pleased they were able to book you into a cancellation slot - hopefully you’ll get more clarification on what’s going on and what further input, if any, is needed.

    I have my appointment with the consultant on Wednesday.  It’s for an internal, vaginal ultrasound and a biopsy if needed.  Just typing this makes me very scared!  I was worried that I’d have to attend on my own but my neighbour has kindly offered to come with me so that’s a positive.  I was hoping I’d get results on the day but from what you and Dollysocks have written that sounds unlikely so more waiting seems on the cards.  I’m really hoping I don’t need a hysteroscopy as that sounds very painful and I’m a bit of a wimp!

  • Oh Maebelle , I am glad that you have a date . That’s also good that you have the option of the follow up on the day as well . Though no one looks forward to a biopsy , but at least you won’t have to wait weeks . 
    Re the hysteroscopy , check re the options available to you for pain control . No expert but I have read about gas & air , local anaesthetic    and also a general anaesthetic. I think if you discuss it straight away , that may be easier than feeling a bit forced into the option you don’t want - as you don’t want to make a fuss . 
    That’s also good that your neighbour can go with you . Xxxx 

  • Thank you Cat-Cat for the information regarding pain management for the hysterectomy-I’ve started a list of queries to take with me so will add this x 

  • Maebelle I had local anesthetic when I had my procedure. It is an awful cramping pain, but it doesn't last long. They recommend taking paracetamol before hand. X

  • Cat-cat are you ok?..... I am checking in due to your appointment. I hope is went as well as expected. X

  • Many apologies Cat-Cat I thought your appointment was in July but now realise you also had a GP appointment today - I hope all went okay? xx

    Hope you’re doing okay Dollysocks? xx

  • Hi Dollysocks / Maebelle , 

    Thanks both for checking in with me - so kind to be thinking of me . I have had a bad cold since Saturday and I am really fatigued .

    The GPs appointment was to discuss further steps after the abdominal scan on 10 June . Things have obviously moved on since then,  as I got the urgent call from my GP and then the urgent referral . I decided that it probably wasn’t great to go as wasn’t feeling great and would also perhaps pass on the lurgy to others . I am able to cancel my GPs appointment via my mobile phone,  so just did that last night . 
    if I hadn’t been feeling so awful I probably would have gone along and just asked a few questions . xxx