Hello Mintymo,

your post heading re no control struck a chord with me having previously faced and overcome a stage 4 diagnosis.Whilst l appreciate what your words convey and the significance they have on your life, it means your direction of control has changed, not lost if you choose it not to be.

Your focus now shifts to controlling how you face and defeat this new challenge and what you need to do to achieve this, not a loss, just a necessary redirection.Gain strength through adversity and push through to a stronger you

Move forward gently with the strong determination you posess to achieve the outcome you desire,

David

Thank you for these positive words. I 

Thank you for these positive words. I