Feel scared and lost

Am 72 and just diagnosed with breast cancer after biopsy, awaiting follow up and treatment plan appointment next week. I live on my own - my wonderful son has his own cancer problems and is 300 miles away - am lucky to have good friends locally but still feel alone. I thought I was a strong person but realise now Im not and am constantly anxious . I think it could help me to be in contact with others who have been on this path, and hope that at some point in the future I can help someone else. Just now I'm finding it hard to just get through the days until my appointment, let alone thinking any further.

I'm so grateful to anyone who might read or reply to this post.

Thank you

S

  • Hi Suze,

    I shall be thinking of you tomorrow and hope that it all goes well. Irrespective of the outcome, you will feel better once you know exactly what you are dealing with and start looking at treatment.

    Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,


    Jolamine xx

  • I had breast cancer 22 years ago. Mastectomy, lymph glands removed and chemo. I had a lymph gland biopsy which shows it's active again. Had a PET scan, another biopsy tomorrow and then results from the oncologist next week. It's very scary but we all know that. We are not alone.  I wish you all the best. X

  • Hoping all goes well for you at your appointment tomorrow.  You're not alone ..remember we will be thinking of you.  

    Hope you manage to have a restful night. 

    Voirrey

  • Thank you.  It's hard to get your head round at first..

    Am grateful for the help from the hospital and the brilliant nurses . 

    Wishing you well on your journey. Let us know how you are going on, Pippin 

    Xx

  • Thank you, will update after my oncology appointment xx

  • Hi Shirley,

    I am so sorry to hear that you are facing this again. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer within a year of each other. That was all 14 years ago. I know just how scary this is. I hope that all goes well for your biopsy tomorrow and shall be thinking of you.

    Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Shirley, how awful for you to be going through It all again. Am  wishing you only the best for your results. At my appointment today I was told they wanted an MRI scan which will be on Monday 19th - apparently a precaution as biopsy showed only one area. Then decision on what type of surgery and subsequent treatments. I suppose I was hoping for more of a plan, but at least I'm now in the system. The Macmillan nurses are wonderful, thank goodness for them. 

    As you say, we are not alone and we are strong, as women have always had to be. All the best to you too. Xx

  • Hi Voirrey, thank you. Appointment was OK but told need MRI scan to confirm biopsy findings of only one site, hopefully. Then decision on surgery. More waiting which I've never been the best at.

    You are right about how brilliant the nurses are. Hope all.goes well for you

    Suze x

  • HI Suze,

    I am so sorry that you still haven't got a definite answer and have still more waiting to go through. You must feel disappointed that you didn't get answers, but it is important to get the diagnosis as accurate as possible to facilitate the best treatment.

    Thinking of you and always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Dear Jolamine, thank you, I need to get it into my head that these,things take time and it's important not to try and anticipate what might happen. As I said to one of my lovely contacts on this site, sometimes you feel as if your body is not your own, and that you are yet another statistic. We have strength and support , which is so important.  

    All best wishes to you

    Sue xx