28 years old and stage 4 breast cancer

Hello everyone,

I am a 28 years old woman and have just been diagnosed stage 4 breast cancer this week. I have cancer in the right breast, all related limphnodes and a methastasis in one of my vertebrae. I am trying to be positive and to don't emotionally collapse for people around me. But I don't know exactly what to expect from this diagnosis as I still didn't discuss treatments in deep with the oncologist. I am quite scared because I also have two little children ( 4 and 6) and wonder for how long will I be able to look after them or stay with them. My cancer is progesterone receptive and the only thing I know till now is that my cancer can be treated but can not be cured. Other than from the cancer I am perfectly healthy and the methastatic phase looks just at the beginning. Anyone in my situation could explain me a little what treatments have been offered ? And how do you feel. Thanks a lot for your time and kidness. 

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  • Hi J.H. 
     

    I also just been diagnosed with right breast cancer today. I am 38 and have 1 little boy who is 2yo. I knew when they called me in for the result, something was wrong. My diagnosis so far is high grade DCIS. I need to go for MRI next week to further evaluate the extent of the cancer. Being diagnosed with breast cancer is really scary if we have little ones to look after, wondering how much left we have to be with them (i always think of the worst, i know it's bad!). Let's hope for the best and even how daunting and scary this situation we are in, we have to stay strong  for ourselves and to our lovedones. Sending tight hug your way! I know we can beat this!

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  • Hi J.H. 
     

    I also just been diagnosed with right breast cancer today. I am 38 and have 1 little boy who is 2yo. I knew when they called me in for the result, something was wrong. My diagnosis so far is high grade DCIS. I need to go for MRI next week to further evaluate the extent of the cancer. Being diagnosed with breast cancer is really scary if we have little ones to look after, wondering how much left we have to be with them (i always think of the worst, i know it's bad!). Let's hope for the best and even how daunting and scary this situation we are in, we have to stay strong  for ourselves and to our lovedones. Sending tight hug your way! I know we can beat this!

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