Hi,

im in the same position. 2 boys gcse and alevels. I'm 46 and was told on Tuesday I have invasive ductal carcinoma. I'm waiting for MRI and lymph node biopsy to confirm treatment. The wait is excruciating. Inside I want to scream. I think of every scenario and it scares the crap out of me. Nights are worse. But I keep busy in the day. I'm grateful it's been found and it can be dealt with and I'm going to fight this. Be strong. Xx

Hi,

im in the same position. 2 boys gcse and alevels. I'm 46 and was told on Tuesday I have invasive ductal carcinoma. I'm waiting for MRI and lymph node biopsy to confirm treatment. The wait is excruciating. Inside I want to scream. I think of every scenario and it scares the crap out of me. Nights are worse. But I keep busy in the day. I'm grateful it's been found and it can be dealt with and I'm going to fight this. Be strong. Xx

I'm 47 and feel exactly the same as can't sleep much either ..I know we have to be strong but I feel like so weak and helpless . Xxx

I wish I could turn my mind off. The waiting is the worse. I'm trying to take each day at a time as that's all I can do. I managed to do 'normal' day time stuff. But the evenings are hard. We just need to keep busy and take one appointment at a time. 

Good luck Hun and big hug from me x

You too. xxx