My Journey Continues

Hi all my forum buddies.  Just wanted to post on a new thread as it is more relevant than where my journey began.  Hope to see you here. Jules

  • Hi Jules, while at shops today saw suet and thought of you and your birds...good to hear you have chosen legal beagle to do the necessary. I have decided to have a few veg out days and chill. Think I have been pushing myself too hard. 5 days of over 33 forecast coming up which means early dog walks. Have suspected pinched nerve in c7 so have made appt for remedial massage and chiro for Friday. If it gets worse neurologist wants me to call him and have MRI. Have every confidence R & R and massage will fix it.. You will have a ball babysitting on Friday, am sure the littlies will have you beaming. Ok hon may have an early night. Big hugs. Kathy xx
  • Hi there Jules,

    Hoping that you have managed to get a bit more understanding of the new layouts and so on at work and also hoping that the visit went ok with your Mum.

    I am afraid that this is a short message to tell you that I am going to be conspicuos by my abscence for a while.  Unfortunately the long running demon war has elevated to a whole new level in the last few days and right now I am finding it extremely difficult to manage everyday challenges like work and home life.  I wish it was possible for you wrap up and post to me some of the enormous strength you have shown for such a long time now but it isn't and I am struggling to find any more of my own.

    I will be in touch as and when there is any improvement but in the meantime please take care of yourself and sending best wishes to you and your amazing family.

    Garf. xxxxx

  • Oh Garf

    So sad to read your latest post on my thread.  Don't you dare give up on fighting those demons (really wish PM still available) and take all the time you need to talk to the professionals and try to find a way through the 'fog' you are  being held in just now.  Thank you for being a great forum buddy (I will not  have you say otherwise) and remember your virtual friends when the fog clears.  Sending peaceful thoughts (hope they reach out to you) and understanding hugs.  Jules x

  • Hi Kathy

    Hope you will find the time to to relax  (though I know how much keeping busy helps with our 'over-thinking things!!) and are putting your feet up so you will be refreshed int time for the arrival of your family and the happiness the wedding celebrations with bring (I also know there will be difficult emotions/memories so give yourself some TLC in the meantime.  Am thinking of you and thank you for your continued support and listening to my inane ramblings.  Look after  yourself- big hugs.  Jules x

  • Hi Jules,

    Am glad to read that your return to work went well. Thinking of you as you continue along your journey and sending best wishes as always.   Hope x

  • Garf, just wanted to send supportive hugs to help you through this next stage. 

    Annabel. xx

  • Thanks Hope,its lovely to have the support of my forum buddies when I log on from time to time. Do findI cannot concentrate on much for very long but know I must get down to sorting things out around the house at some stage. Not rushing things as I am sure I will get on with it when I feel it is right. Hope you and the family are well.  Jules x

  • Jules,

    Just sending you  hugs . Wish we had pm to chat privately. You are in my thoughts often.

    Hugs 

    Annabel. xx

  • Thanks Annabel and hugs returned.  Its very sad that the PM situation has not yet been resolved and perhaps now the biggest problem with the 'new' layout.  Certainly many of the 'old school' regulars  would, I know, find it useful as you do not necessarily want to 'lay bare' all that is going on in your life through 'open' forum'.  I still think it strange that with today's advances in technology, they cannot reinstate the very thing that made the old forum special - choice on how to post.

    Following the difficulties surrounding the registration of hubby's death, all should be resolved next Thursday but it has made an already sad time incredibly emotionally draining for me and especially the children. Moving forward in the journey is definitely a step by step process and soon we will also have the official complaints procedure to follow through.  Hubby must be sending us strength as we continue to cope.

    Hope you and the family are all keeping well.  Peaceful thoughts sent your way.  Jules x

  • Dear Garf, sorry to see the issues that plague you.  Your forum mates that have only read your posts are rooting for you and hope you turn to good health soon.  We are behind you.  Take care Kathy and big hugs to you and Mrs G. Xxxx