Hi everyone I just needed some help. Ever since my mum passed away I have been dreaming each night about the night she passed away. I sometimes wake up crying or having hot sweats. Is this normal? X
Sorry I didn't reply last night, I was so tired. I am glad that Garf has responded to you for he too knows what it's like to lose someone.
I think my answer to your question is when we lose someone we love, there really is no normal. For to be honest, life will never be quite the same again and losing someone leaves a big hole in our lives. We all react differently and try to deal with our loss in any way we can. Don't be afraid of crying for it's natures safety valve that allows us to release the emotions that naturally build up inside us at time like this. With regard to the dreams, I think it may be that the loss of your mother has had such a big impact on you, and is probably a result of the fact you are constantly thinking about what happened.
As Garf has said, please keep posting for we all are in need of support at times like this.
Sorry I didn't reply last night, I was so tired. I am glad that Garf has responded to you for he too knows what it's like to lose someone.
I think my answer to your question is when we lose someone we love, there really is no normal. For to be honest, life will never be quite the same again and losing someone leaves a big hole in our lives. We all react differently and try to deal with our loss in any way we can. Don't be afraid of crying for it's natures safety valve that allows us to release the emotions that naturally build up inside us at time like this. With regard to the dreams, I think it may be that the loss of your mother has had such a big impact on you, and is probably a result of the fact you are constantly thinking about what happened.
As Garf has said, please keep posting for we all are in need of support at times like this.
Thankyou Brian and garf. I do think about my mum all day so it makes sense that I'm going to have dreams like this. I find things are becoming much hard as more time passes as its so evident my mum is no longer here. Thanks again for the king words love Jen x
Hi jen I lost my mum suddenly to cancer on 29th May and I totally feel you. I wake up most nights thinking my mums shouting on me and then reality hits that I lost her. Last night I had the worst dream that she had died and been brought back and she was in so much pain and couldn't do anything herself and I woke up a mess this morning. It's horrible but I think it's all part of the grieving process. Hope you can find some comfort in knowing that your not alone.
