New to the big C, awaiting breast biopsy confirmation but already been told in clinic yesterday they think it's cancerous. Told a couple of friends and my mum. One friend is already trying too hard to look after me, and it's stressing me out. Not told my kids, they are 23, 16 and 6. I'm dreading telling more people; am I being selfish? I haven't got the mental strength to deal with everyone else and their worries and questions. I have recently come out of a mentally abusive marriage which has drained me psychologically. I can barely think straight with this added on top. How do people cope with having to manage everyone elses feelings too?
