My dad is dying on ventilator as I speak

I found out my dad had cancer around 2 weeks ago he is now on his death bed they said he may not make it through the night his organs are shutting down !I looked at him I can't see his veins and his hands are floppy I know he's already gone they said it's possible he will come back but they can't promise to me he looks like he's already dead Im his first child and he has a young son dad is 63 ive never really dealt with death before I just need some comfort here everyone is upset and I upset my son as I didn't tell him about the cancer till now I feel hopeless 

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  • I'm so sorry, I know exactly how you feel, my dad was 58. 
    Hold his hand, tell him you love him, talk to him, He can still hear you even if it doesn't seem that way. 
    Sending you so many hugs at this difficult time and the days ahead. 
    At the time I wondered if it was strange, but I took a picture of me holding dads hand while he was still here, it's a treasured photo x

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  • I'm so sorry, I know exactly how you feel, my dad was 58. 
    Hold his hand, tell him you love him, talk to him, He can still hear you even if it doesn't seem that way. 
    Sending you so many hugs at this difficult time and the days ahead. 
    At the time I wondered if it was strange, but I took a picture of me holding dads hand while he was still here, it's a treasured photo x

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