Dear Afrohair 91, I wish you peace, My Mother went  quickly within hours, be comforted that  You Dad is leaving this place  surrounded  by love and members of his family, If it helps, We were allowed into hospital to say good bye, Mom  was very dozy from drugs as they had ''made her comfortable'' but she was already yellow and juandiced. she suddenly came awake and said ''why has anybody been to see me for ages ?  My brother and I were able to get her to speak on the phone to say goodbye, then she dosed off again. what we did was phone up everybody  and asked them  to tell her how much they loved her  and wish her a happy journey to heaven ,I held the phone next to her, I have absolutely no idea  how much she heard, we played her favourite music on the phone . many hours later , we wanted to go and have some rest but felt guilty  at leaving her in case she died on her own- The nurses said, she isnt on her own, we are here with her. That was lovely,   about 5 hours later she died.  she was inconcious  just after she told us all off for not visiting her during covid .  Big Hugs  Afrohair 91, sending hig hugs your way,xxx

Dear Afrohair 91, I wish you peace, My Mother went  quickly within hours, be comforted that  You Dad is leaving this place  surrounded  by love and members of his family, If it helps, We were allowed into hospital to say good bye, Mom  was very dozy from drugs as they had ''made her comfortable'' but she was already yellow and juandiced. she suddenly came awake and said ''why has anybody been to see me for ages ?  My brother and I were able to get her to speak on the phone to say goodbye, then she dosed off again. what we did was phone up everybody  and asked them  to tell her how much they loved her  and wish her a happy journey to heaven ,I held the phone next to her, I have absolutely no idea  how much she heard, we played her favourite music on the phone . many hours later , we wanted to go and have some rest but felt guilty  at leaving her in case she died on her own- The nurses said, she isnt on her own, we are here with her. That was lovely,   about 5 hours later she died.  she was inconcious  just after she told us all off for not visiting her during covid .  Big Hugs  Afrohair 91, sending hig hugs your way,xxx