I have breast cancer which has spread to my bones and would like to chat with others going through similar things
I have breast cancer which has spread to my bones and would like to chat with others going through similar things
Hello Sjwill1133, and welcome to the forum but so sorry you have to be here, I am a 58yo male, have advanced prostate cancer, diagnosed nearly2 years ago, been through treatment, not curable, and treatment is becoming less effective, and unsure about next stage, best wishes.
Eddie
I have breast cancer spread to my lungs.
happy to connect x
Hi there I'm so sorry to hear about your diagnosis I was diagnosed with breast cancer about 4 years ago.My world fell apart had a mastectomy which now I feel cheated and totally uneven as was one breast.But a year or 2 later found a lump under my arm it broke me.Had a biopsy cancer again.I was never shown no scan pics nothing told by cancer nurse not riddled with it. Month later go to hospital. Day my heart was broken told stage 4 terminal metastatic estrogen cancer.Which had spread to my bones lung ànd lymph nodes.I couldn't process it I cried and cried.Head was messed as told earlier I was not riddled I wanted to scream shout can't explain mixed emotions.My partner of 11 years my soulmate my 4 children my two grandchildren how do i tell them.If I'm honest I'm not dealing with it well burying my head in the sand.I can't face the world I spend a lot of time in my room.I've never ever felt so lonely and venerable in my life.Words can't explain that's why I have joined this forum to hopefully connect and talk with someone that understands.Just want to say feel free to message me anytime or anyone in similar situation would be much appreciated.Sorry for long reply but sending good wishes
Hi Damagedsoul, there is so much in your post i relate too, even going to hospital. I'm at xxx hospital this morning, but if you would like to talk later i would like that, PS i am male 58 with prostate cancer and mets, best wishes.
Eddie
Hi Eddie thank you for your reply I really appreciate it I just seem to be burying my head in the sand it would be good to talk
How would we exchange details
Hi Damagedsoul,
Exchanging personal details on the forum is not allowed, as this is a public domain, but you can do this through private messaging.
I hope these guides we have on how to use private messaging and how to add a friend will help but if you have any problems, just give us a shout.
Kind regards,
Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator
Sorry Steph I do apologise
No apology needed Damagedsoul.
I just wanted to let you know so you can exchange your details safely.
Kind regards,
Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator
Hi Damagedsoul if you make a friend request i will be happy to accept