Can’t imagine life without mum, she only has months left

So today we found out mum only has a few Months left, could be more could be less. We only found out about the cancer a few weeks ago. I really can't imagine life without my wonderful  mum. I love her so much, I can't bear to see her like this, and know it's only going to get worse. She and no one desverves to go through this. She has been there for me SOOOO much I can't explain. I'm in 40s don't have children, mum is my best friend. 
im so worried about loosing my identity can anyone  relate?

I only hope that this is as comfortable as it can be for her xxx

cant believe I'm gonna loose my mum the same way as my dad. Xxx

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  • I'm really sorry to hear what you are going through. It's just not fair is it ? I lost my mum and dad in the height of the pandemic. Granted it wasn't to cancer (although mum did have cancer years before this) I am too an only child and so I can empathise how enormous this feels. 
     

    Don't be afraid to reach out to friends and family. Grief isn't linear. Write things down, if you can stomach it, keep a diary. Ask mum to write in it. Please remember you aren't alone ️

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  • I'm really sorry to hear what you are going through. It's just not fair is it ? I lost my mum and dad in the height of the pandemic. Granted it wasn't to cancer (although mum did have cancer years before this) I am too an only child and so I can empathise how enormous this feels. 
     

    Don't be afraid to reach out to friends and family. Grief isn't linear. Write things down, if you can stomach it, keep a diary. Ask mum to write in it. Please remember you aren't alone ️

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