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Can’t imagine life without mum, she only has months left

Lovemydad
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So today we found out mum only has a few Months left, could be more could be less. We only found out about the cancer a few weeks ago. I really can't imagine life without my wonderful  mum. I love her so much, I can't bear to see her like this, and know it's only going to get worse. She and no one desverves to go through this. She has been there for me SOOOO much I can't explain. I'm in 40s don't have children, mum is my best friend. 
im so worried about loosing my identity can anyone  relate?

I only hope that this is as comfortable as it can be for her xxx

cant believe I'm gonna loose my mum the same way as my dad. Xxx

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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your mum Lovemydad.

    This must be a lot for you to get your head around at the moment, especially as it's come so soon after finding out she has cancer, but I want you to know that you are not alone.

    So many of our members have, sadly, been in your position and will know all too well what you're going through at the moment so I'm sure some of them will be along soon to offer you their support and advice.

    In the meantime, be kind to yourself Lovemydad and try to concentrate on the time you do have with your mum, making as many precious and special memories as you can.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your mum Lovemydad.

    This must be a lot for you to get your head around at the moment, especially as it's come so soon after finding out she has cancer, but I want you to know that you are not alone.

    So many of our members have, sadly, been in your position and will know all too well what you're going through at the moment so I'm sure some of them will be along soon to offer you their support and advice.

    In the meantime, be kind to yourself Lovemydad and try to concentrate on the time you do have with your mum, making as many precious and special memories as you can.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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