Coping with loss of mum?


Three weeks ago my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. She had very few symptoms before this so it came as a complete shock to our family & by the time we found out it had already spread to other parts of her body. The doctors said she was too weak for chemotherapy and within a week she was moved to a hospice. I stayed with her day and night at the hospice and on Valentine’s Day she passed away. This has all happened so quickly. Christmas Day I celebrated with my family, including my mum and now she’s just gone. I don’t know how to process this, I feel empty and broken and don’t know how to just carry on normal life knowing I’ll never be able to talk to my mum or see her again.

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  • Hi that's really awful. I've had the exact same experience - mum passed away suddenly the day after Valentines. She had had symptoms of lung cancer for several months but was putting off seeing the doc for confirmation. She had COPD and heart issues and was a heavy smoker. 
    My brother died 5 weeks ago of alcoholic liver disease. This has been a sh***y, sh***y time. If you want to unload, do. 

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  • Hi that's really awful. I've had the exact same experience - mum passed away suddenly the day after Valentines. She had had symptoms of lung cancer for several months but was putting off seeing the doc for confirmation. She had COPD and heart issues and was a heavy smoker. 
    My brother died 5 weeks ago of alcoholic liver disease. This has been a sh***y, sh***y time. If you want to unload, do. 

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