I am so sorry for your loss.my heart breaks for you and your family.I honestly wish I knew what to say to you.my family and I started on this horrifying journey 12 weeks ago.my beautiful mum is dying of terminal lung cancer.we are totally heartbroken, in the not too distant future I will be where you are now and I'm terrified. I cannot imagine life without my mum,my best friend, my heart goes out to you.try to stay strong,my thoughts are with you xxxx

hello wendy12a 

I'm sorry to hear your mum is dying unlike most my mum had a 4/5 year struggle with her terminal cancer so I got to spend a lot of time with her it's really not a nice journey you and your family are going through I did learn make as many memories you can with the time you still have with your mum most of mine are from when mum was in hospital or at home when she was bed bound even just laughing at the radio or our cats my mum use to talk about her funeral and after she died I'm not sure if your mum talks about this whilst it's very heart breaking it really helped my mum to know she had a say in what happened after she past or even in the final stages of her life I'm always here if you need a chat about anything x

Thankyou poppy for getting in touch,if am so very sorry for your loss.my, my heart truly breaks for you.I think you are so brave,I am so happy you got a decent amount of time with your mum to create some special memories, my mum was initially given a couple of weeks and she's still here 12 weeks later she actually feels quite well and surprisingly looks well too,but after been told a couple of days ago they've found something else on her lungs we are in a blind panick and have to wait till Tuesday to hear what we all sadly no what there going to tell us which is another cancer has appeared.like your mum my mum has talked about her funeral arrangements too,I cannot bear to her and it and have to leave the room whenever it's mentioned, I cannot bear thinking about when she's gone I am so scared she is my whole world,you are an inspiration, you really are.stay strong ,my thoughts are with you.hope to chat again soon xxxxxx

Thankyou poppy for getting in touch,if am so very sorry for your loss.my, my heart truly breaks for you.I think you are so brave,I am so happy you got a decent amount of time with your mum to create some special memories, my mum was initially given a couple of weeks and she's still here 12 weeks later she actually feels quite well and surprisingly looks well too,but after been told a couple of days ago they've found something else on her lungs we are in a blind panick and have to wait till Tuesday to hear what we all sadly no what there going to tell us which is another cancer has appeared.like your mum my mum has talked about her funeral arrangements too,I cannot bear to her and it and have to leave the room whenever it's mentioned, I cannot bear thinking about when she's gone I am so scared she is my whole world,you are an inspiration, you really are.stay strong ,my thoughts are with you.hope to chat again soon xxxxxx