In my opinion there is no need to be nasty to you nomatter how he feels, those exercises are for his own good and should keep him occupied so he thinks less about the bad and can concentrate on the good, like he's alive and getting better, and he has a lovely and helping wife.

I hope [@telemando]‍  can come on and talk to you and him he's been there done that got the tee shirts.

im abit different my prostate cancer has spread to lymph nodes spine ribs pelvis and a lung,I was diagnosed Feb 2016been on palative care,im also a carer for my darling wife she has Alzheimer's and Parkinson's plus other problems,so I don't get time to think about my problems have to put her first,24/7.

Hope he gets exercising regularly and starts being a good husband again.

Take care keep positive.

Others on forum have had similar problems with partners there partner and told to just go into another room or go for a walk to leave them to it .. personally I think he kneeds things to keep him occupied All the time.

Billy

In my opinion there is no need to be nasty to you nomatter how he feels, those exercises are for his own good and should keep him occupied so he thinks less about the bad and can concentrate on the good, like he's alive and getting better, and he has a lovely and helping wife.

I hope [@telemando]‍  can come on and talk to you and him he's been there done that got the tee shirts.

im abit different my prostate cancer has spread to lymph nodes spine ribs pelvis and a lung,I was diagnosed Feb 2016been on palative care,im also a carer for my darling wife she has Alzheimer's and Parkinson's plus other problems,so I don't get time to think about my problems have to put her first,24/7.

Hope he gets exercising regularly and starts being a good husband again.

Take care keep positive.

Others on forum have had similar problems with partners there partner and told to just go into another room or go for a walk to leave them to it .. personally I think he kneeds things to keep him occupied All the time.

Billy