Hi 

Sorry to read you find yourself at the end of your husbands toxic remarks. 

Whilst I totally understand how hurtful this is going through treatment is horrific. 

I'm currently going through chemo for breast cancer and I've been very lucky my relationship with my partner is if anything stronger however both he and others offer advice, help and sometimes it's just all consuming. Unless your the patient its hard to really understand and explain what your body and mind is going through. 

I spend the day on my own with just TV and dogs due to his work, your mind plays havoc with you. 

Can you take some time out do things for yourself, for your own mental health.

Hope this helps a bit.

Best wishes

Louise x

Many thanks Louise, I appreciate your help 

im really sorry your having to face this from your husband.

no doubt you are worried about .i hope you can be there for him amd maybe 

try understand that is emotions could be all over the place.

i know its not quite the same but my partner Jayne had breast cancer at times she would be 

quite nasty with her quips but i just accepted this as i loved her more than anything.

though every week or so she would say sorry for acting as she did,but i just told her not to

worry as i understand that what she was facing was screwing with her emotions.

sadly i lost my partner Jayne just over 2 years ago and im missing her like crazy.

i just hope you can maybe try have a little chat and explain how you feel.

maybe hes unaware of how hurtful hes being.i hope you can sort this and be there for each other.

sorry im no real help.take care 

On the contrary Jayneian, I have learnt a lot from your post. He has calmed down. I think it's the shock. I have also learnt to be more persevering. We will get there. 
Many thanks for reaching out to me. So sorry for your loss. Hugs. 

you are very welcome,

i hope every thing works out for you both.take  care 

you are very welcome,

i hope every thing works out for you both.take  care