Update on mum

Hi everyone. Sorry I have been away so long!! Only just remembered I had created an account on here!

Just thought I'd pop on and add an update for everyone I had spoken to in the past. I will recap for anyone else who reads this and doesn't know my story

My mum was diagnosed with lung cancer last year and was given radiotherapy to shrink the tumour as it couldn't be removed safely due to it's location. We were hopeful since after her treatment she had a scan and was told it had shrunk dramatically. Unfortunately two days after this she took a turn for the worst and ended up in hospital in a bad state. We eventually spoke to a consultant who told us it had spread to her brain and was terminal. She bounced back after this and was released home, and was told perhaps chemo would prolong her life and was her decision, this is where I left off last time I wrote on here. Just an update to say she decided against the chemo after being told it may not help and would make her pretty sick, wasn't worth it at the time as she was still pretty able and in a good way. Since then she has been in and out of hospital a few times, nothing as serious as the first time. Celebrated Christmas, new year & just recently my birthday. Glad for this although she is sadly getting weaker and sorer, spends most of the the time resting.

Anyway just thought I would post an update! Thank you for reading xxx

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  • Just to let you all know my mother passed away earlier this morning

  • Oh Candy I am so terribly sorry!

    You know we are all here for you and my virtual door is always open if and when you want to talk.

    You have been in my thoughts a lot and will be more so now.

    Please take care!

    Garf xxxx 

  • Thank you everyone. Sorry I'm not replying individually just thought id quickly reply to all 3 of you. I am absolutely devastated. I was there while it was happening and I found it very difficult to watch but I am glad she's rid of this cancer and pain now..

    I was just hoping some of you could offer advice on what to do now.. What did you all do to keep sane and keep going? I feel myself crumbling already

    xxxx

  • Crumble away Candy!

    If you want and need to curl up in a ball and cry your heart out then do it.  It is very important to release the pain you are feeling as it also helps to start the healing.  Admit to yourself that you are in pain and grieving  and just take things slowly, one day at a time.

    I'm sorry I can't be much help to you right now Candy and I can't get at my computer again now for a while but I will check in again later.

    Garf. xxxx

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  • Crumble away Candy!

    If you want and need to curl up in a ball and cry your heart out then do it.  It is very important to release the pain you are feeling as it also helps to start the healing.  Admit to yourself that you are in pain and grieving  and just take things slowly, one day at a time.

    I'm sorry I can't be much help to you right now Candy and I can't get at my computer again now for a while but I will check in again later.

    Garf. xxxx

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