Hi Joe

You are likely already doing everything possible to look after Jeanine. At the end stages of cancer (Im on palliative care) I would not have the energy to move abroad for treatment. Or to move away till the end. My main goal is to live as normally as possible with my family and friends in familiar surroundings. Jeanine might feel the same way. My wish is to die at home with our local hospice second choice if I cannot receive enough care at home. You have probably been asked to contact your hospice early as there is usually a shortage of beds. Best wishes for you and your family.

Ed

Hi Joe

You are likely already doing everything possible to look after Jeanine. At the end stages of cancer (Im on palliative care) I would not have the energy to move abroad for treatment. Or to move away till the end. My main goal is to live as normally as possible with my family and friends in familiar surroundings. Jeanine might feel the same way. My wish is to die at home with our local hospice second choice if I cannot receive enough care at home. You have probably been asked to contact your hospice early as there is usually a shortage of beds. Best wishes for you and your family.

Ed

Hi Ed, I can’t thank you enough for your kind and thoughtful reply. It’s incredibly reassuring to hear. I wasn’t even expecting anyone to as well so really appreciate it.

My ship feels steadier already. I’ve always felt that the most important thing is to just keep things simple and as present as possible  

Sending you and yours  all my best. I hope your journey is a restful as it possibly can be. Thanks again. Joe.