Hi Plumduff, I don’t have any advice but just wanted to comment as what you wrote really resonated with me. My husband was recently diagnosed with bowel cancer and has since had part of his colon removed. I’ve been through so many emotions and one is anger. This is my first post on here so not sure of protocols but just wanted to send you a virtual hug and say I get how you’re feeling and it’s not selfish, it’s really hard being the carer I’m sure you are doing your best for him. Take care. 

Hi Violet68

Welcome 

Im sorry you are going through this too you are not alone

I have been on a rollercoaster so far and I am sure you have too from what you say.

None of us planned to be in this spot and it is tough ...sending hugs to you too

Thank you. It’s a hell of a ride. I’m so sorry your husband’s is incurable. I hope you have lots of support around you, it is so very hard being the carer. Sending you love, hugs and strength xx

Thank you. It’s a hell of a ride. I’m so sorry your husband’s is incurable. I hope you have lots of support around you, it is so very hard being the carer. Sending you love, hugs and strength xx

Thank You Violet68

I really appreciate your kind and thoughtful words.

Hope your hubby's op goes well

Sending you hugs and love to help you throug

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