Breast lump biopsies - advice please

Hi, 

So I found a large lump in my breast and had it looked at this week at the clinic. I expected to be told that it was a fibroadenoma or something so was quite surprised as their reaction showed it was possibly something else. 

Within minutes of the nurse scanning my breast, she called in the consultant who told me they were concerned. The nurse told the consultant my node was 2.5cm too. So they took quite a few core biopsies of my breast lump and from my armpit too. I also had a marker placed and 2 mammograms. They told me they would see me in just over a weeks time and really stressed to bring my husband with me. 

I had a core biopsy taken from another lump 2 years ago but they weren't worried and it was a completely different experience to this time.

After my mammogram, I saw the nurse typing up notes and I saw 3 different sizes: 7.5cm, 3.5cm and 5.2cm. So all fairly large! But not sure what it was referring to.

I'm 36. Breast cancer doesn't run in my family. I actually feel quite calm and not overly anxious about it. Lots of people keep telling me that most of the time these lumps are found to be benign etc. But I feel that I would actually prefer to go to my appointment next week expecting bad news as thinking it was probably nothing to go through that this week took me aback a little. So I'd rather be prepared. If it is benign then that's great!

So I really need some help with knowing what to ask/find out next week if it is bad news. I'd rather have some questions prepared. Cos otherwise I'll be sat there with my head in a daze and come out regretting I didn't find out more! Could anyone suggest some questions or things I should know/find out? 

Thank you so much!

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  • Hi

    Again, not much more to add to what has been said already. I was diagnosed with breast cancer 4 weeks ago. I'm just sat at the clinic waiting to be seen for my pre-op app. My operation is on the 8th June. 
     

    When I attended for my results the info they gave me was all really clear and straightforward. I thought I'd have loads of questions - couldn't think what they'd be but presumed I'd want to ask loads! I didn't have to ask anything. They told me the type of cancer I have. The size. What my treatment options were (lumpectomy or masectomy) I've opted for a lumpectomy initially. They already had the plan worked out. Apart from the news being rubbish! The appointment was really quite ok. 
     

    After I saw the consultant I spent about 20mins with my designated care nurse. She just went over it all again and used more user friendly terminology to explain a few things. 
     

    Hope your appointment goes ok. 
     

    Sarah xx 

  • I'm so grateful to you all for your responses. Thank you all so, so much.

    I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this at the moment. I really hope that your treatment goes well for all of you. And your help and responses have made me feel so much more in control, so I can't thank you enough. 

    Best wishes and thinking of you all xx

     

  • Think everything has been covered. I would just add, take someone with you. When I got my results they said they would call, but the hospital called to say I had an appointment that day at 4pm, so clearly wasn't going to be good news.

    When I got to the appointment they asked me if anyone was with me, as they could go in with me (despite it being November 2020 and the Covid restrictions). I didnt think I  could so had no one with me.

    The Breast Care Nurse, who I stayed with after the consultant delivered my diagnosis, couldn't stress enough how important it was to have someone attend those types of appointments with me. My sister has attended all further appointments with the oncology and surgeon.

    I hope you get some good news. 

  • Thank you so much. 

    I'm so sorry you were on your own when you received your news. That must have been so frightening and distressing for you. But so pleased you had your sister for later appointments. The radiologist and consultant really stressed the importance of bringing my husband with me. I'm not sure how it will work with Covid. They've said he might need to wait outside until I'm in the consulting room? 

    I was copied into a letter today to my GP. It said that it was an irregular mass with calcifications. I'm not sure what that means really, but I'm sure they'll tell me next week. 

    I hope you are all okay. Thinking of you all xx

  • Hi. Just reading your update. Mine is an irregular mass with calcifications. It's the calcifications that have meant the bit to be removed is bigger! Lump is 3cms. But the calcifications take it up to 7cms. From what I can gather, although the calcifications themselves are not cancerous, they can suggest that something is going on in cells around them?!?! So when occurring alongside a cancer diagnosis they need to account for them and take the area away too. I gleaned this from Google of course :)) 

     

    Hope you're doing ok xxx

     

     

  • Thank you Slightlybewildered, that makes absolute sense. Really appreciate you replying. 

    Hope you're doing okay too xx

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