Hi tangoPotter and James4000 ... just to let you know I'm thinking of you
Hi tangoPotter and James4000 ... just to let you know I'm thinking of you
You're welcome xx
James 4000 forgot to say the tumour is T 2
Please never say sorry tango, you have been so strong, especially getting thru today which has been very stressful for you. Well done, you should be really proud of yourself, I am hope you can feel the love and gentle hugs coming your way xx
Which means into the muscle layer/wall of the bowel, in case he didn't explain xx
Eastendgirl still feeling weepy the consultant was really nice and explained every thing to me about the op sounded confident he can get it all out Stage or grade of my tumour is T2 I’m scared of having a op but I know for me that’s a start to recovery they did talk about chemo but I said I don’t think I will be good with that I explained about my anxiety attacks and stress so he said if I want the op then that’s ok. Horrid bowel prep for the op loll x
Feeling weepy is natural and a release of the waiting for today, another day to ️ off the list.. so glad the consultant was reassuring and listened to you..as for the prep, part of the journey, soon be done xx
Hi Tango
That all sounds really encouraging. I'm so happy for you.
Obviously overwhelming and emotional. Great that you can cry about it, to be honest. I've only cried twice during this whole ordeal, with times alone with my partner.
It sounds like the medical staff have been great, supportive and clear.
The surgeon's confidence in getting it all with no stoma too is really encouraging.
(I'm fairly sure mine is going to be more complicated as it's slightly more advanced than yours, so I'm fully expecting chemo or similar first, and so weeks/months until surgery. I'm desperately trying not to look too far ahead, but I struggle with staying in the present. I've had to double my anxiety meds [that o only started with the diagnosis])
But today is all about you. Sending you love and hugs. So happy that you have a clear plan and a very encouraging outlook from the surgeon.
Gentle hugs for you James4000 xx
Eastendgirl and james4000 don’t know what I would have done with out both of you You both have and are my rock. I can’t stop crying today hopefully I won’t cry tomorrow been a really long day finding different departments to the hospital my consultant says there isn’t a waiting list for this surgery so he’s confident op will be three to four weeks. My life as been overtaken with all of this. I’m a music student playing piano and I’m a singer but now all I feel is I have cancer. lots of love to you both xxxx
You are not and will not be determined by cancer..
You are a music student and singer, how wonderful and how special to learn a little about you.. so much for you to look forward to and fight for, which I know you will do..
Let the tears flow they are healing and will help you through the days ahead .. it's been a long hard day xx
You are not and will not be determined by cancer..
You are a music student and singer, how wonderful and how special to learn a little about you.. so much for you to look forward to and fight for, which I know you will do..
Let the tears flow they are healing and will help you through the days ahead .. it's been a long hard day xx
You are not and will not be determined by cancer..
You are a music student and singer, how wonderful and how special to learn a little about you.. so much for you to look forward to and fight for, which I know you will do..
Let the tears flow they are healing and will help you through the days ahead .. it's been a long hard day xx