Hi I wanted to message to say I am going through this and waiting for results too. If you ever need to talk just drop me a message xx 

Thank you. How are you coping? Im exhausted today but i think its mental stress. I get my results tomorrow. X

I know someone that has happened to was told same as me and was benign.

Thats good they have said that to you if they say it could be benign though! I mean they dont 100% know until they get them results back. I know treatmens now for breast is so good too. My mum been talking to others and the more you talk the more people seem to come out and say there sister had it or aunt etc and that was like 15 years ago! I just want to look back to this time in a couple of years and think wow its been like 5 years since that happened. X

Thank you that’s really appreciated xxx

I found the lump Easter weekend. Biopsy results (private) were back on 19th April. Then I moved to treatment on the NHS. I've had surgery today. A lumpectomy, some skin removal and a partial reconstruction. It was too close to the skin so that's why I needed to have the partial reconstruction

 Mine was a 44mm x 38mm lump. So quite large.

Yes the original consultant said he's seeing it more and more whic is worrying x

It really is sadly so much common in younger age groups now, it’s scary. I hope by the time our daughter’s are older it is very easily treated and got rid of.

How is your mum doing? My mum is upset that I didn’t tell her until after my appointment she just wants to support me. I lost my dad to cancer 8 years ago so this is all very familiar and brings up some hard to deal with memories xx 

Sorry to jump in, how long did the private results take and did they call you to tell you? I am with a spire hospital so could be different, I have an appointment for the week after next for my results but just wondered if they could be back a bit sooner xxx

On my ultrasound mine is described as a 2cm with subtle ridge nodularity. How do you feel? Hope all went well with you.. did they put you to sleep? Do you need anything else as well as the lumpectomy? Sorry your going through this. They defo should lower the mammagrams i think! X

So sorry to hear about your dad.. my mum came with me to my appointment i have literally been living with her since.. she has taken time off work to look after my daughter. We even been eating clean etc too and im having these awful green smoothies she is making me on a night lol which are full of goodness. My mums been upset with me we are like you and your daughter the best of friends. X

Hi. Yes I was with the Spire too. The consultant booked me in for a face to face appointment a week later but they called and said that it wasn't ready. I was booked in for another appointment 2 days later and the results were back then. A long winded way of saying 1 week and 2 days xx

I am the same. I lost my mum to breast cancer in 2019. It's brought up some really horrid dark places. But I am trying to keep positive and busy. Xx

Aww that’s so lovely she sounds like your rock and a fantastic support for you and your daughter. 

The green smoothies sounds interesting lol but it’s important to stay healthy and everything helps, and as it’s green that sounds very good for you lol. 

My appetite is up and down, I often just feel so sick and don’t want to eat but know I need to stay strong so do, other times I have a normal appetite… I normally love my food xx

Aww that’s so lovely she sounds like your rock and a fantastic support for you and your daughter. 

The green smoothies sounds interesting lol but it’s important to stay healthy and everything helps, and as it’s green that sounds very good for you lol. 

My appetite is up and down, I often just feel so sick and don’t want to eat but know I need to stay strong so do, other times I have a normal appetite… I normally love my food xx