Hello Bubbles,

I can completely relate. I have crippling health anxiety. Currently writing this from my bed as I've tried getting up this afternoon and felt so ill from.the anxiety that i decided my bed is my safe place! Ive recently been given an urgent 2 week referral too. I found a lump in one breast which is very painful but wasnt too worried..at the time! As soon as my doctor felt my other breast and found another lump I didn't know i had, I immediately went into shut down mode! Barely eaten in the three days since. Not even thirsty. I feel frozen with fear and imagining all sorts (hair loss, death etc!). Im already scared if death and now i just feel debilitated and desperate. Ive tried borrowing some money to book privately but ironically, they're all closed at the weekend, which has made me feel worse. My mum died of ovarian cancer but no ine else in my family has Cancer history so im trying to calm down but instead my brain is on overdrive.

Feel so scared and alone. 

Im thinking of you. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. Hugs x

Hi Danni your not alone lovely. I’ve been the same in bed unable to get up. Literally crippled with fear. It’s debilitating isn’t it  I would call them Monday to be asked to go on the cancellation list. I’m going to call back too. Let’s try and help each other get through the wait. I’m so sorry to hear about your mum, the trauma of that won’t help your anxiety either. Sending you so much love xxx

You're absolutely not rambling at all! Amd thank you..ive had a hard time losing people too..mum eas first.. step dad had leukemia but didn't tell anyone, best friend died and my dad committed suicide. Had many years of Cbt, talk therapy, anxiety/panic disorder meds but years of health anxiety, just like yourself, means I'm a regular at my doctor's..i cringe every time im there but every time i go, to me, is valid as im convinced ive got something life-threatening.. again like you, tests, scans, bloods have more or less come out fine but it doesn't seem to stop me from worrying the next time! Im very pleased you have a lovely, understanding partner as i think it helps to have someone close to you that just gets you! He sounds very supportive. Im blessed that mine is the same.. feel awful if he pays for something but im desperate. You honestly don't sound ridiculous at all... It's your body and you only have one! Totally natural for you to keep looking out for yourself (fight or flight!) and definitely good that you're cautious. Xx

Oh danni you’ve had such a difficult time.you sound like your a real fighter and you should give yourself credit for everything you’ve been through you have found the strength to keep going. I’ve had every illness going these past few months and completely relate I cringe every time I go up. Hopefully everything goes positively at the clinic and I’ve told myself I’m not going to worry anymore. It’s hard because I worry about everybody’s health too. Mums got her follow up soon with the clinic and I’m worried about that. I’ve lost my grandparents which was hard as grandad was a father to me and nan had esophagal cancer and it was heartbreaking seeing her so poorly. My mum fell Ill years ago with imflammatory arthritis  and lost her mobility almost over night. It was heartbreaking seeing her loose her independence but I keep reminding myself that although she’s in pain it’s not a terminal diagnosis. It’s just hard to see when you want to take the pain away. I’m pleased you have a supportive partner too. It sounds like you have a great support network. My partners trying to be patient bless him. He’s a bit peeved as he spent all that money on my ultrasound and I’m still stressed xxx

Good luck today Vickie x

I’ve accidentally put report to moderator!! I didn’t mean to I just randomly clicked a button. Can I un report? X

Good luck Vicki xx

Don’t worry Nhj91 if this disappears I will start a new thread lol x

Hi Nhj91,

Not to worry about reporting the post - we saw this report but have ignored it based on it being done in error, so all OK.

Thanks,

Ben
Cancer Chat moderator

Thank you :)

Hi Dannii how are you today? I’ve gone completely down the rabbit hole as today my boob looks like orange peel. This 3 week wait is a complete joke. Not heard from the NHs at all. Have you managed to find anything quicker today x

Hope you’re ok Nhj91 it’s worth every penny to be seen quickly x

Hope you’re ok Nhj91 it’s worth every penny to be seen quickly x

I’m not good I feel so ill with worry. I feel guilty because I should be reassured but I can’t rest till the clinic. Just seen your not doing good :-( keep strong. It’s awful the wait it really is xx 

Thank you, you too. I’ve never noticed this orange peel look and I’ve got a lot of photos from the start so now I’m really panicking. Hang on to the reassurance Nhj91