I am in utter turmoil. I have a 5 year old a 3 year old and a 5 month old whom I am still breast feeding. I have been referred urgently to the breast clinic. I have dimpling and thickening and my nipple is starting to pull inwards.

I am scared I am 38 and have babies who need me being sick isn’t an option. My appointment is on Saturday at first I thought I’m sure it’s nothing but now I’ve read all the symptoms looked at pictures I fear the worst.

From what I have read it looks like IBC which might have already spread. I feel sick, and I can’t stop crying and thinking I’m going to die.

Anyone else with young children been through this? Please help me xx