Thanks - the last few days have been rough. Unfortunately it is a busy time at work and my boss doesn’t seem to see the situation as being as serious as I feel it could be. If mum needs treatment after this I think I will have to resign my job as they are really not that understanding about needing time off unless it is for childcare. Feeling rather alone.

Hi MGgirl,

I’m sorry to hear about about your Mum.

I’d love to say something outstandingly profound that will instantly help you. Unfortunately, profundity isn’t one of my most apparent qualities.

what I would say though is that it’s normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes, especially in situations such as the one in which you have found yourself and when one thing in your life is overwhelming you, it’s difficult to perform as usual in other aspects of life.

I don’t think it’s fair to expect yourself to “continue business as normal” at such a time; everything isn’t normal at the moment.

you did say you nearly shouted at a colleague and I think “nearly” is the important part. You managed to avoid shouting. 
mot seems like you’re not doing too badly, to me, at least. 

just remember to reach out to others for support if you need it.

I hope all goes well for Mum.

Best Wishes

Rich