Found a lump in my breast absolutely terrified

I don't even know where to begin iv never done anything like this but I am absolutely petrified. About 2 months ago I found a lump in my left breast I went to the doctors and was told to wait until I had a period. Well 2 months later and the lump is still there so now the doctor has referred me to the breast clinic? (classed as urgent). I am so scared I am only 30 I have 3 young children who I am not ready to leave. I have the lump in my breast, a swollen glad the same side in my armpit and today I have found a new red like mole on the breast the same side. Family keep telling me all is OK and not to worry but I can't help but worry I feel like I'm drowning in the worry. I feel so overwhelmed and don't know what to do can anyone please talk me through what happens at the breast clinic and how long will I roughly be waiting to find out? Xx

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  • Hi hun, I can't answer your question but wanted to let you know I'm going through the same thing and am here to talk.  I have my appointment next Friday at the breast clinic, when is yours?  

    I'm 35 and have a 2 year old such a worrying time, all I keep thinking about is what will happen if I'm gone.  It's horrible so I get exactly where you are coming from.  

    I had a miscarriage 4 weeks ago and have noticed the lump straight after.

    Have everything crossed for you x  

  • Hey chick thank you for getting back to me it's just nice to actually speak to someone about it who understands how I feel. I'm so sorry your going through the same it's horrible isn't is. I really hope your appointment goes well for you. Mine isn't until the 7th April had the hospital ring me about it today. Oh bless you I'm really sorry that happened to you sending hugs. Thank you babe you too always here if you need to talk xxx

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  • Hey chick thank you for getting back to me it's just nice to actually speak to someone about it who understands how I feel. I'm so sorry your going through the same it's horrible isn't is. I really hope your appointment goes well for you. Mine isn't until the 7th April had the hospital ring me about it today. Oh bless you I'm really sorry that happened to you sending hugs. Thank you babe you too always here if you need to talk xxx

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