I don't even know where to begin iv never done anything like this but I am absolutely petrified. About 2 months ago I found a lump in my left breast I went to the doctors and was told to wait until I had a period. Well 2 months later and the lump is still there so now the doctor has referred me to the breast clinic? (classed as urgent). I am so scared I am only 30 I have 3 young children who I am not ready to leave. I have the lump in my breast, a swollen glad the same side in my armpit and today I have found a new red like mole on the breast the same side. Family keep telling me all is OK and not to worry but I can't help but worry I feel like I'm drowning in the worry. I feel so overwhelmed and don't know what to do can anyone please talk me through what happens at the breast clinic and how long will I roughly be waiting to find out? Xx