Hi there

oh so sorry to hear your diagnosis. You will be in shock and going through a number of scenarios in your head.  It will seem very scary and the fear of the unknown is worse than going through any operation or treatment in my opinion and am sure many others would agree.   I too had this diagnosis. I had never been in hospital befote (except childbirth) and had never had a general anaesthetic, let alone sn operation.  But in hindsight I wish I hadn't have worried about it do much. The staff explained everything and were ever so nice and really put me at ease.   I was expecting to be "in bed" for weeks but literally took it very easy for first 10-14 days. Really was astounded at how good I felt so quickly. But believe me I did sit down / lie down a lot but it was not nearly as bad as I had expected. Worrying is completely normal but you will manage it. You will. Do you have some help/support after your op? 

Just seen your post about your hysterectomy, I was told today that I'm  having one next week and I'm in bits and terrified of the op and anaesthesia. My recent biopsy came back with no malignancy showing but there was a second opinion and further investigation of the biopsy. A couple of things showed up on the scans I had done and they had an MDT meeting this morning and decided I needed it done. I was so sure it was going to be okay but now in total shock and so scared. Any reassurance and advice would be welcome.

Hi there, so sorry to hear that you are frightened and worried.  I was as well!  But if the medics indicate that a hysterectomy will be the best course of action, then put your trust in them.  It's really not as bad as you will think... and you will attend a pre-op appointment very soon so take this opportunity to ask any questions you might have. I am happy to answer any you might have. X

Hi Patricia67

Thanks for replying.  I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through the same thing.  I wish you all the best and a speedy recovery.  Have a look at the replies I received.  I found them very helpful.

Thank you  cardholders for your comments and advkce, which I found very helpful.

Thank you  cardholders for your comments and advkce, which I found very helpful.