Any advice welcome

Hi everyone

I was diagnosed with uterine cancer last week.  The consultant said he's looking to carry out a radical hysterectomy within the next four weeks.  I'm in shock and terrified, does anyone have any advice or comments that they think could help.  Many thanks x

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  • Hi Wiccanwoman,

    I was where you are now, in January of this year.

    You are still in shock and  your mind will take time to process the unexpected news!

    I was really scared and overwhelmed for about 10 days, couldn't think straight at all.

    I had a total hysterectomy on May 18 th and have started back at work today.

    My advice, having gone through the same, is to let your feelings out, don't try to cover them up.

    Take it one step at a time, and get support from friends and people closest to you.

    In a few days, the news will have sunk in and you will cope better.

    The surgery is pretty straightforward, I was only in hospital for one night.

    It's taken me a few weeks to recover, but getting there.

    It's a tough journey, but you'll get there!

    Take it step by step,

    Just a day at a time.

    You don t have too long to wait for surgery.

    Most uterine cancers are early stage, so the chances are good.

    It can be treated, the success rate is high.

    Waiting for the biopsy results was hard, but  just take one step at a time.

    I was lucky, It was an early stage, slow growing cancer, so I needed no further treatment.

    I hope it will be like  that for you too.

    Keep busy, focus on eating well and staying positive in the lead up to surgery.

    I was fitted with the mirena coil to help to protect my womb.

    Maybe you could ask then about this treatnent.

    I know exactly how you feel Wiccanwoman, it's a journey and you will feel so relieved after your hysterectomy.

    Small steps, be kind to yourself and gather your support network and I'm sure they will be there for you.

    I've made it through and it's hard, but you can do it too.

    Wishing you well and I will be thinking of you.

     

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  • Hi Wiccanwoman,

    I was where you are now, in January of this year.

    You are still in shock and  your mind will take time to process the unexpected news!

    I was really scared and overwhelmed for about 10 days, couldn't think straight at all.

    I had a total hysterectomy on May 18 th and have started back at work today.

    My advice, having gone through the same, is to let your feelings out, don't try to cover them up.

    Take it one step at a time, and get support from friends and people closest to you.

    In a few days, the news will have sunk in and you will cope better.

    The surgery is pretty straightforward, I was only in hospital for one night.

    It's taken me a few weeks to recover, but getting there.

    It's a tough journey, but you'll get there!

    Take it step by step,

    Just a day at a time.

    You don t have too long to wait for surgery.

    Most uterine cancers are early stage, so the chances are good.

    It can be treated, the success rate is high.

    Waiting for the biopsy results was hard, but  just take one step at a time.

    I was lucky, It was an early stage, slow growing cancer, so I needed no further treatment.

    I hope it will be like  that for you too.

    Keep busy, focus on eating well and staying positive in the lead up to surgery.

    I was fitted with the mirena coil to help to protect my womb.

    Maybe you could ask then about this treatnent.

    I know exactly how you feel Wiccanwoman, it's a journey and you will feel so relieved after your hysterectomy.

    Small steps, be kind to yourself and gather your support network and I'm sure they will be there for you.

    I've made it through and it's hard, but you can do it too.

    Wishing you well and I will be thinking of you.

     

    X

     

     

     

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