Hi there

oh so sorry to hear your diagnosis. You will be in shock and going through a number of scenarios in your head.  It will seem very scary and the fear of the unknown is worse than going through any operation or treatment in my opinion and am sure many others would agree.   I too had this diagnosis. I had never been in hospital befote (except childbirth) and had never had a general anaesthetic, let alone sn operation.  But in hindsight I wish I hadn't have worried about it do much. The staff explained everything and were ever so nice and really put me at ease.   I was expecting to be "in bed" for weeks but literally took it very easy for first 10-14 days. Really was astounded at how good I felt so quickly. But believe me I did sit down / lie down a lot but it was not nearly as bad as I had expected. Worrying is completely normal but you will manage it. You will. Do you have some help/support after your op? 

Thanks for replying.  Your words did bring me comfort.  I felt calmer and felt more able to put things into perspective.  I surprised myself with my reaction to the news because I do not usually panicc.  Your words made me think about how many people fight this disease and come through the other side.  That's exactly what I intend to do.  Thanks again.

Thanks for replying.  Your words did bring me comfort.  I felt calmer and felt more able to put things into perspective.  I surprised myself with my reaction to the news because I do not usually panicc.  Your words made me think about how many people fight this disease and come through the other side.  That's exactly what I intend to do.  Thanks again.