Reassurance for triple negative breast cancer

Hi everyone

Just needing some guidance and reassurance!
Diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer this week.

Need to wait until Monday now to meet the team and hear the plan of action! Getting myself paranoid I know triple negative is more aggressive and I just want to be safe and get started!

I get the odd weird nerve tingle in my shoulder or chest and convinced it's spreading! 

I've not had MRI yet but ultrasound and mammogram looked fine for no spread so that's keeping me going!

I honestly feel I obviously got unlucky it's breast cancer but triple negative makes me feel it's so much worse and I keep thinking it's a death sentence and I'm terrified! 
 

xxx

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  • Hi Rebecca31,

    I was diagnosed with TN cancer in January. Had a mammogram/ultrasound and biopsy done on the same day. I started chemotherapy beginning of March 12 weeks, every week. The good news is the chemotherapy has drastically shrunk the tumour and it's disappeared from the lymph nodes. The surgeon told me before I started chemo that they've learned a lot about triple negative and the results are getting better. Have faith in your surgeon and oncology team, they'll get you through

  • Thank you so much for this it's helped a lot!

    Yes I've been naive and thought I could get a lumpectomy and radiotherapy but they said they would want to do chemo first to shrink it! I suppose nothing in life is certain and I'm upset this is happening but I just want to start the journey!

    I am surprised you waited so long to start treatment?

    I thought chemo would start within weeks as this type is faster growing but I'll find all this out next week!

    hope your doing well now love

    wishing you speedy recovery!! Xxx

  • Rebecca31

    I had the mammogram end of January, 2 week wait for results. Saw the surgeon " Yes it's cancer and because it was triple negative and it's aggressive we're going to do chemotherapy first". They do the chemo treatments first now so the don't disturb the tumour so rogue cancer cells don't go else where. So had to wait 2 weeks to see the oncologist then week later started chemo. All chemo treatments are different, 1 size don't fit all. It depends on the cancer, the severity so they have to get the right one just for you. All the little aches and pains etc you get are all magnified when you first get told, I actually phoned my GP convinced I had lung cancer, but he reassured me that feeling like this was normal

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  • Rebecca31

    I had the mammogram end of January, 2 week wait for results. Saw the surgeon " Yes it's cancer and because it was triple negative and it's aggressive we're going to do chemotherapy first". They do the chemo treatments first now so the don't disturb the tumour so rogue cancer cells don't go else where. So had to wait 2 weeks to see the oncologist then week later started chemo. All chemo treatments are different, 1 size don't fit all. It depends on the cancer, the severity so they have to get the right one just for you. All the little aches and pains etc you get are all magnified when you first get told, I actually phoned my GP convinced I had lung cancer, but he reassured me that feeling like this was normal

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