Hi all, 

My uncle has been diagnosed with high risk, locally advanced prostate cancer. His Gleason score is 9, it is T3b, and his PSA is currently 132. 
In terms of spread, he is M1a - it has spread to lymph nodes and nerves but not to bones or organs. Doctors have recommended chemotherapy and he is currently on hormone therapy. He is 51 years old. 
I just feel very scared and I would really appreciate speaking to someone who has had prostate cancer, especially of a similar score/category. I want to understand how "bad" this is, and if I should be hopeful or not. While I am probably looking for reassurance, I also would like to know the reality of what to expect. 
So many questions run through my mind...does he only have five years, is this terminal, can be ever be in remission? 
 

I would really appreciate the stories of people who have been through this. 
 

thank you so much