diagnosed today with breast cancer

hi everyone so I posted last week about finding a lump and my doctor doing a biopsy, I got my results today and I've been diagnosed with stage 1 invasive ductal caricoma ( I think that's what its called) I'm absolute devastated. my consultant says he was also shocked because of my age (32) and no breast cancer runs in my family. he said that it grows from my hormone but is still awaiting the hers2 test to come back. I'm waiting for a MRI scan within a week he said. and my nurse will call me tomorrow to have a chat I wasnt really listening after he said it was cancer luckily my mum and sister were there with me I'm so confused upset and scared all at the same time x

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  • Hi lovely lady,

    I'm sorry to hear your diagnosis. Please do not let it get you down. My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer 3 years ago again totally out of the blue. She was in hospital to be treated within 4 weeks as her lump was 15mm, (massive compared to most cases). She has had chemotherapy and a mastectomy since then and has been given the all clear. She then has a re-construction and honestly you cannot tell she has had her boob removed which is amazong since she was a 38E.

    I was diagnosed with cervical cancer in September 2017 after an abnormal smear test. I know this is a scary situation to be in and you feel helpless but the doctors are great and the research now is so advanced. I then found out in January 2018 that I was pregnant which was terrifying. I was scared that the cancer would affect my son and I worried about how my treatment could continue while I was pregnant. I choose to stop my treatment until I had my son in October 2018. Thankfully he was perfectly healthy and weighed in at a whopping 9lb 15oz.

    I have now started my treatment again. I think it helps a lot to keep an open mind and to keep positive. Believe that the cancer will not beat you. Years ago anyone mentioned cancer and it meant death..... now I know many, many people who have survived cancer and are warriors in my eye. Im not very God following but I do believe that God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers! Keep positive and follow these forums for help, support & advice!

     

    Good luck lass 

     

    Best wishes

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  • Hi lovely lady,

    I'm sorry to hear your diagnosis. Please do not let it get you down. My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer 3 years ago again totally out of the blue. She was in hospital to be treated within 4 weeks as her lump was 15mm, (massive compared to most cases). She has had chemotherapy and a mastectomy since then and has been given the all clear. She then has a re-construction and honestly you cannot tell she has had her boob removed which is amazong since she was a 38E.

    I was diagnosed with cervical cancer in September 2017 after an abnormal smear test. I know this is a scary situation to be in and you feel helpless but the doctors are great and the research now is so advanced. I then found out in January 2018 that I was pregnant which was terrifying. I was scared that the cancer would affect my son and I worried about how my treatment could continue while I was pregnant. I choose to stop my treatment until I had my son in October 2018. Thankfully he was perfectly healthy and weighed in at a whopping 9lb 15oz.

    I have now started my treatment again. I think it helps a lot to keep an open mind and to keep positive. Believe that the cancer will not beat you. Years ago anyone mentioned cancer and it meant death..... now I know many, many people who have survived cancer and are warriors in my eye. Im not very God following but I do believe that God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers! Keep positive and follow these forums for help, support & advice!

     

    Good luck lass 

     

    Best wishes

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  • charliebabex I have also been diagnosed with the same this week although mine is a grade three with no staging yet. I am trying to keep it together, Im also only 31 years old. Keep strong, modern technlogy is a wonderful thing. Im awaiting a CT scan monday to see if it has spread as my lymph nodes have also been effected. keep your  chin and and stay strong, it will be a tough road but you will get through it. All the best x

  • thank you davebbz that makes me feel a little better plus I've spoken to my nurse properly today and got alot more information ( I'm a stickler for knowing everything) I know that I've got my surgery date in two weeks then radiation afterwards not sure if I need chemo yet as still waiting for the hers2 to come back but I'm alot more positive once I've digested everything. congratulations on your lil baby boy what  crumper, weve got 4. two boys 14,13 two girls 11 and 9 and had one of each weight one tiny one mahoossive one tiny and massive again lol I hope your treatment goes well and thank you for making me feel better x

  • I'm so sorry meggles88 I sincerely hope for good news for you, I'm having the lymph node removal when I have the lump removed beginning of February so I'll know more then I'm also having mri next week so again this should hopfully give more info, I'm just going through every emotion right now as I'd imagine you are but were strong and we can get through this x

  • Hi 

    I was diagnosed with ductal carcinoma which is stage 0 breast cancer it's still in the milk ducts. I was diagnosed from my routine mammogram in January, 16th February had my operation and just started radiotherapy yesterday. I need 5 sessions so finish next Tuesday. Radiotherapy is painless, just a pain having to go hospital every day for around 20 minutes or so. I found it helped me to read everything I could regarding my cancer so I was forewarned and it also helped me with asking questions to my oncologist and surgeon. Hope everything  goes well xxx