Hello Kls222

I'm sorry to hear that your partner has recently been diagnosed with cancer. I'm sure that it's been a difficult time for you both but it's good that your partner is keeping positive about things at the moment. 

We do have some information about radiotherapy on our website here which may be helpful for you ahead of meeting with the Consultant next week. I'm sure that you have some questions that you want to ask. I know that some of our members here have found it helpful to write those down before going to see the Dr. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed by things and then forget what you want to ask. 

If you'd like to speak to one of our nurses for some advice and support then they are available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

Keep in touch KLS22 and let us know how you both get on next week. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator

Hi kaz , 

im so sorry to hear about your husband and hope the radiotherapy is a success and helps make him more comfortable, I am a great believer in hope and you just need to not get ahead of urself in ur mind about the "ifs" and " buts" you just have to try remain positive even if Losing ur mind inside I know how incredibly hard that is believe me .i have a good cry and let it all out when I'm on my own Cz I need to be strong around him as seeing me upset will just make him worry . We are only stil coming to terms with it as only found out last Thursday never suspected be cancer , he only had a sore neck. We go for biopsy results next Thursday so can decide on what treatment is best . 

Just take each day at a time and fingers crossed with the radiotherapy . 

Please feel free to message me anytime . 

Sending lots of love and prayers to you both xxx

Thankyou for your reply 

I will take your advice on board and try remain positive. He had another biopsy today as they didn't get enough tissue last time so we go next Thursday for results and discuss treatment .

we first got told radiotherapy and now today while having biopsy he told us maybe chemo so just confused at moment X 

just have to wait til next Thursday now . 

Thanks again for reply x 

Hi Kls222

Just wondering how you are and how your husband is doing? My husband finished 4 weeks radical radiotherapy last Friday. He coped really well with treatment but is now very tired which we did expect. Unfortunately on 10th Feb we were told the cancer has spread to his brain. He had problems with his vision and had had a fall so after telling the nurse and having a chat with the doctor an immediate CT scan was arranged. We waited 3 hours and were told the same day. He had a head MRI on Wednesday last week and a chest and abdomen CT scan last Monday. The doctors were going to meet to review the results on Friday so we are now waiting  to hear what they propose. The registrar thought possibly surgery but it depends on the scan results.  I hope you and your husband are doing well.

Kaz xx

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