:( My Father Been Diagnosed With Prostate Cancer):

Never thought I be writing this again I'm in total shock :( my father haven been feeling unwell just b4 Xmas he went up the doctors they done full blood count . My father went back to the doctors for is results and was told that one of is blood they took PSA came back high and with history is father died from prostate cancer is brother got it to so they send him to see speclist seen speclist they send him for scan . He was told something was shown on is prostate so he had to have biopsy it was two weeks after test done he had letter from hospital oppointment Monday 13 January2020 had phone call at 2:15 yesterday had the dreading phone call again  to say it Cancer he's waiting now for bone scan then they take it from there to see what treatment he can have etc . I'm heart broken every thing is coming back what happened to my mother as most of you know my mother died from bowel cancer I miss here so much now I'm feel like I'm going to do it all agin my mind working over time . I can't believe this is happening what start of new year it's like I'm living in nite mere again :( :( 

  • Hello John,

    I can truly sympathise with you, having not only been a patient going through a prostate cancer diagnosis, but also someone who cared for his mother many years ago when she had breast cancer...

    This month makes 8 years since my diagnosis for Stage 4 Prostate Cancer, the journey was not easy but I have made it this far. Treatments have come a very long way since I was diagnosed and more and more men are surviving something one could not even contemplate 8 years ago. My mantra as always been 'Never ever give up' and I pass that onto you and your father...As stated by others the journey is not easy, and each person's journey is different, equally each carer's journey is different (we can't forget about the carers they are the lifeline for the patient)...The good thing in this chat room is you are amongst experienced and good-hearted people and as well as an organisation that leads the way in cancer research and ultimately saved my life through its research...Anything you want to ask or vent, know that it can be done in here safely with informative and precise responses forthcoming  ...Happy New Year to both You & Your Father...

  • Thank u so much 4 taken time 2 answer . We just waiting 4 letter appointment 4 bone scan then we should know more and hopefully 2 see what treatment he can have it's waiting game again . 

  • My father got appointment Friday for bone scan I'm worried 2 death . The past few years been 1 thing after another why do bad things always happen 2 hard working good people . I hate cancer :( 

  • Hi gemini, most strange I've got another bone scan on Friday, specialist wants to double check my uninvited guest hasn't sneaked somewhere else, you know it takes hours for a bone scan ..Best wishes . 

    Billy 

  • Hi hope it all goes ok 4 u 2 Friday. Yea my father haven the injection at 12:15 they spoke to him on phone and everything was in letter  what they doing . My father only had that appointment for Friday because there was cancellation or he would have 2 wait nearly 2 weeks because our hospital don't do bone scan he got 2 go 2 another hospital. Thanks 4 taken time in answering u take care . 

  • Hi gemini, hope you're father is taking plenty to read or something, then food and drink maybe three hour wait is boring with only other patients to talk to sometimes. Best wishes for Friday.... Billy 

  • Morning billy my niece be taken him my niece will keep him amused ;) I would have gone with him but little boy is in full time nursery. They also told my father to keep away from children and pregnant women after he haves it done . Thanks again x 

  • Hi gemini don't think you know he is supposed to stay in special room other people aren't allowed in because of radiation risk just people having treatment sorry not sure how to put it... Billy 

  • Hi billy thanks 4 the heads up . My father knows all about it hope u ok and u wife . Thanks again x 

  • Hi billy just wondering how the scan went . My father had is scan he got is results Tuesday x