Newly diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer

Hi

i have been reading some of these posts as I have been diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer and am booked in to have the cancer removed on both breasts on 24th December. Naturally I am very frightened but trying to stay to stay positive. Consultant has said it is localised but they will take some nymph nodes to help prevent any possible spreading. 
has anyone else gone through bilateral surgery? Will I be in lots of pain on Christmas Day?

thank you for taking the time to read this

mary

  • Hello, so sorry to read you have it in both breasts! Wow, what a Christmas Eve your going to have! What surgery are you having? Mastectomies? I had a lumpectomy and it was fine....just a feeling of being kicked in the boob for a few days....

    good luck with it love, let us know how it goes? Xx

  • Hi,

    I'm sorry to read about your diagnosis, and I can only tell you my experience but I found the mastectomy easy to recover from. I actually asked for a double operation but was refused, so if I ever get the cancer back In the other breast I will be a bit annoyed, to,say the leastI

    I take a long time to wake up from a general anaesthetic, always have, so I stayed in hospital overnight, otherwise I woulld have gone home the same day. My daughter  had seen my slow wake-up before, but my son was totally freaked out by it and he was amazed when he came for me the next morning to find me on my feet on the other side of the ward helping someone to drink their tea.  I had a drain, painlessly attached, (which was removed 12 days later) presumably I still had painkilling drugs in my system, plus I would be pumped full of adrenaline, but I felt absolutely fine in myself.  Obviously it was a bit sore around the scar - my boobs were big so my scar is quite long but I wasn't in much pain at all. I started the exercises as advised, took the painkillers at night and was able to sleep with no trouble. I had had the sentinel node biopsy at the same time as my mastectomy but can't say that bothered me either.  I'm an old dear so I am not going to have reconstruction, and I can honestly say my recovery was quick and easy. 

    Unfortunately I had to go back after five weeks and have lymph node clearance because there was cancer in one of the sentinel nodes.  That has been a bit harder but six weeks later I'm doing fine. 

    So if your immediate worry is post surgical pain, I really think you will feel better than you expect. Good luck, it's a rotten time to be having any illness, let alone major surgery. 

    Christine x

  •  

    Hi Mary,

    Lucky white heather eh?

    I started off with a lumpectomy 10 years ago, but had a second bout of cancer in the same breast within a year. I also had a lump in my other breast six months after my first surgery, fortunately this was benign. I  opted for a double mastectomy and although I was a bit tender for the first few days, I healed quicker with this than I did with my lumpectomy.

    The one thing that you might find helpful is to have a small heart shaped cushion to pop under your arm whilst you're recuperating. I bought 2 from one of the card shops, but I understand that there is a charity that provides mastectomy cushions for free. I have seen it mentioned on this forum not long ago.

    I also found it useful to have nightwear which opened down the front, especially when I was in hospital. This meant that I didn't have to raise anything over my head until I was less sore, so it was handy for the examination and dressing sessions.

    Please let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    I shall be thinking of you on Christmas Eve and hope that it all goes well for you. Are you planning to have reconstruction?

    Have they told you when you'll be discharged? If you are still in hospital on Christmas Day, I'm sure that they'll manage any pain with pain killers. I went in on a Thursday and was discharged the following Monday.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx